"Legume could ask to have these comments removed, but hes chosen to let them stand " Yup. He's had numerous opprotunities to ask for them to be removed when he and I have talked on Icq. I figured if he wasn't going to sweat it, I wouldn't worry about it.

"I am a good person now and it feels... well, pretty much the same as I felt before (except that the headaches have gone away now that I'm not wearing control top pantyhose on my head anymore)"

• Monkeysmell