Voice is a big thing. There have been a few men in my life that melted me with their voice. Deep and well modulated. I don't care how handsome a man is, if he has a bad voice, forget it. Eyes and how they connect when they are talking to you and yes, the smile has to reach the eyes. I also find men with high cheekbones ans well defined faces sexy. Arms and upper chest lightly muscled, not too much hair. Hmmm... Antonio yes, Spike oh yes, but Giles on Buffy could turn my head at times as well and both Clark and Lex on Smallville. (I have teenaged girls at home. This is what is on at our house,) Women, alot of the same. Voice ,eyes, smile and a soft rounding for the body, angles on the face. I don't get the Angelina thing either. She has a very odd body, skinny legs, large chest and the leg: body proportion is off. The dark hair looks bad, she looks better as a blonde. Kate Winslet is sexy as was Madonna before she got so toned. Also Alissa Milano from Charmed.