Boy, you like walking through mine fields, doncha... Well, even though Im gay, I can find some women pretty sexy, but then I see people "sexy" in the same way I see them as "smart" or "blond" or "Lutheran": sexy is just a quality. Granted, a fun one =), but still, just a quality. A sexy guy to me (first things first, folks) is one of two things. Either he's a blue-collar Italian with a great jawline and a moustache (and really great forearms, which, to me, are the dead giveaway for a good bod), or he's one of those extras in the background of any half-decent Viking film: blond, bearded, furry, with, natch, really great forearms as well. =) Heightwise, not too tall, not too short, just tall enough that youre eye to eye when you punch his lights out as foreplay. Women? Well, give me one who looks sharp and stylish. Not a thin little refugee from a modelling runway or a big-breasted boobie from a strip club, but someone with class and attitude and great hair. JLo comes immediately to mind -- damn, in The Cell she made me seriously want to consider becoming a lesbian.