"If I encountered someone as objectionable as what I've encountered here..." Well, what are you doing here then? You don't want an art site like this. What you want is something YOU want, and I suspect it's just a happy little place where everyone is like Chip and Dale to each other: "excuse me...'oh, no, excuse ME'..." There is a place almost like that. It's called The Poser Forum Online. It's a whole separate website. You'd probably be alot happier there, but I bet you'd manage to get yourself tossed out in less than a month, in spite of the fact that it's alot closer to what you're looking for.