Cheers guys - once again I find myself thanking you all for your support! Thankfully things aren't as terrible as they could be; while we parted with one hell of a row, we've talked a little over the last couple of days and both think it is for the best - especially thinking of the kids, we've agreed that we should keep it on as good terms as possible considering the situation. Unfortunately the job restricts seeing them as much as I'd like to, but there's one way to sort that out and change it... which I intended to do anyways, just gives me more incentive. These messages really do mean a lot to me, and to be honest I have the gut feeling it's not the end of a chapter but a new one starting - just some sections of the storyline need to carry on....... (ugh. I'm getting wierd.) Once again, thanks guys! Mike (".)