Hey, this is like a family to me. I feel like my parents are divorcing and I'm in the middle of the custody battle. (Actually, sad to say, it was easier when my parents split, far less bitterness.) Yeah, life goes on, but grieving is normal. Let us softies have our cry until our eyes turn dry and we turn to other matters. I hope that if something does happen, we're given time to try to come up with a solution before the worst occurs.