Warrior, there is no similarities between the Columbine massacre and the Forum feuds. Those kids STOPPED talking and started SHOOTING to solve a problem. I don't think the members discussion of the problem is adding to it, I think it's bringing it out to the open. Look past the seemingly petty squabbles to SEE what the community is upset and concerned about. There are issues here that concern ALL of us. Biting our lips, and convincing others to keep quiet in the interest of keeping the peace only masks the real issues, it doesn't make them go away. I doubt anyone is arguing for argument's sake--I see no real peace with the PFO until someone a bit more accomodating to the needs of the community (and not to their egos) takes charge and makes the changes for the better. It won't be perfect, but it will certainly get better.