Allie, your husband can kiss me any ole time he wants, provided he has a signed and notarized permission slip from you. wink I know that severing my "official" ties to the PFO by cancelling my membership may seem cowardly to some, but to me, it was the most effective way of voicing my disapproval of the situation. Sure, I could have stayed and argued about it, but after thinking about the proper course of action, I felt that cancelling my membership made more of a statement than any words could have. It seems that many of us have forgotten the old adage "evil occurs when good men do nothing." I have done something. I may not have done much, and it probably will have little if any effect, but at least I acted and my conscience is no longer nagging at me about my association there. Kate