Virtual Site. ...Let me just add something to your post in #51. The SM/BD community Maybe the most understanding and tolerant of the sexual pathline but they are usually 150% against child porn in any form. Especiallly lifestylers with children. Since if for any reason they go to jail, they know for a fucking fact that they will be looked at as if they are abusing their children sexually. No matter what. Ask any Lifestyler if they believe in the rights of child porn and you will NOT get a HELL yeah as a response. Where they even come into on this discussion I really don't want to know but if you are part of the community or were, you would know this information. Most of them would even take offense at being brought up in this conversation. Since Lifestylers are precieved by the society at large as perverted sick demented and other things. It's hard enough raising children, even harder to be a lifestyler and keep that part of your life secret from the children who live with you. And yes I have an intimate knowledge of the lifestyle and the community and have for half my life. and I do agree with momcat and Legume, TigerD should be correcting his own statement if that is not what he meant. While I understand what you are trying to do, Unless you know and live with him you do not know if that is what he meant or not. You are doing the same thing you accuse us of by assuming that you know the intent to his words. Perhaps just letting it set and having him deal with it?