jondevitt opened this issue on Jun 08, 2002 ยท 53 posts
ronknights posted Sun, 09 June 2002 at 8:21 AM
I had a brother who had Diabetes, developed gangrene, and almost died because of the gangrene. In the end, he lost a leg. A few years later he died due to the diabetes. I can tell you he didn't like living without his leg. I have a great deal of trouble with people who insist on piercing as a means of expressing individuality. I grew up in the 1960's when it seemed everyone needed to "look like a hippie" to express their individuality. It was quite absurd when you think of it. Remember I've "been there, done that!" In the decades since, I've found the true wisdom or essence of individuality. It's a presence or state of mind, of spirit, "who you are." Individuality and creativity don't depend on the package of your body, how you treat it, or what you wear. Those who insist otherwise are merely beginning their journey of self-discovery. Hopefully they'll learn the error of their beliefs or statements later on. As for me, I'm 52, and look very "normal" in all outward aspects. But I am very much my own man, have my own beliefs, and express my own creativity. The way I am now offers me the utmost flexibility to make it in the outside working world, and in social circles. But then that's just my own "not so humble opinion and experience."