Each and every women I've had the pleasure of knowing has had her own unique way of displaying arousal. Sure there are obvious similarities, but this is not a seen-one-seen-em-all situation. Some are more obvious than others. Some, you never can tell. I went out with a woman for a while that was always very calm and composed. We were out for a long time one day and when we came home she slammed the door and about tore my clothes off and did her best to kill me from exhaustion. [snip] smoking cigarettes Then she told me that she had been aroused all day and had been dying to get home, it was something I did while we were out, she never would say what. Either I'm completely dense (a distict possibility) or she never showed any but the slightest signs. But then there was this other girl...