megalodon, you did include Poppi when you said... "My point here Melanie is that you AND EVERYONE ELSE needs to get a grip." The "and everyone else" includes her and everyone here. I guess that must mean that you're the only one here who has a grip. That must make you feel pretty special. I'm sure I'm a lot older than you are and have been here in "the real world" a lot longer than you have. Last March I turned 52. I think I have quite a good grip on life. Poser is just not my main staple in this life. I never made statments to irk you pesonally, and you came into this thread pertty late to start judging people. We all have our personal reasons for our decisions and we all have our right to voice those reasons. And just for the record, I'm legally blind in one eye, so I don't drive a car, and therefore can't lose my keys. Melanie