Ah...you'd have loved Bryce Camp this year! Scott Tucker guru of all things Tree says to start with a bald tree and add only a few leaves - three or four tops to the branches. I usually sink the tree to get rid of the pregnant spot though thinning the trunk helps some. As far as the droop, that is usually caused by "Branch End Angle" - try adjusting that number down, - Foliage/Shape/Scale can make a difference too. Here's a simple quickie..