I can't recall disagreeing with you anywhere but I think I see part of your problem. When you make a statement like this: "I don't believe in the death penaly or war, or killing...why do most of the people, especially in the U.S. believe that killing is good ????"
people like me will challenge you on it. :) "Most" is not appropriate (or correct) and neither was "especially in the US".

...... Kendra