a turkey baster ?!? um ... don't get TOO graphic there, eh? Ladyjaiven Polyamourous - 'many loving', usually transalted as 'loving more than one person'. Often used to describe multiple adult families and households. I know many families made up of 3 or more adults with or without children. Oddly enough they are more stable in the long run than many traditional families. But that's just my opinion :) Lyrra "the plural of spouse is spice" Madril