Just to jump in about dreamhost again, adult sites isn't a problem. Not to say don't read the TOS, but they've actually got a special for adult-type sites--the pay kind--so they don't have a problem with erotic. One of mine is an erotic site. Also, as far as customer service goes, they're fabulous. And the bandwidth is 30GB/mo. No, I don't work there. :) It's just so rare that I can be really positive about something like this.