Marque, Sometimes the politics and negativity here make me forget that I'm a pacifist... and it is necessary to pull back for a few days and think creative images. But I keep lurking, and there are far too many good people here to just walk away because of an ignoramus or two. I wish that you could have made it to the party last summer so that you'd know how nice some of these folks are ftf. Do what is needed for your stress levels and happiness, but don't close the door completely. {hug} Carolly