Marque, I've been in the same spot before. We all have a right to express our opinions. And it bothers me when the "offender" takes on the role of "hurt party" trying to blame the problem on everyone else. I've had a couple of run-ins with butt-heads in the past myself and felt crushed by it, so I know exactly how you feel. I'm just glad you'll still be around. In a community as large as this, you're bound to run into some idiots now and then. Thank goodness, they're in the minority and that the rest of the group is friendly and helpful. Welcome back and you have a wonderful and creative holiday season, hon. Melanie