Legume I think you do have a point and a good one. But there are times that all of us need encouragement that we are wanted and liked, if this is what he wants, it doesn't take that much to aid a friend, if he is having a bad day what does it hurt to add some friendly words, it doesn't take much....I agree there are some real cry babies here and there but then again we get so much crap from the world everyday, what does it hurt and to be honest I have not seen Ziggie do this before. Sharen