I don't know what's going on but why would you (a collective "you" to anyone who wants to leave over something someone said) let someone push you out? Why do you even care what someone else thinks?

If someone's upset over the gallery discussions they need to toughen up a bit. I don't care what someone else thinks and I don't do things differently because of the opinons of another person.

If someone's getting IM's that are abusive or harrassing, send them to an Admin. If nothing else they'll get to it on Monday and deal with it. Just don't expect them to jump on command on a weekend.

Don't let someone push you around.

...... Kendra