Hi Ok Ok I agree with some of the other sentiments put forward here, yes Doc you have a point. but....what I'm saying is a) bullying can also be of a non physical nature. b) the individual/s who are doing this may have affected other members. there are times I'm sure when we have all came to this place for a bit of light relief from the streeses of the day and as was pointed out in Ziggie's picture a bit of fun and humour. I for one do not come here to be abused and perhaps if someone is in a low enough state due to circumstances beyond their control the abuse may do more than just 'hurt their widdle fewings' as it was most tactfully put! c'mon folks we've all been there , the last straw senario. If you are fed up and you get an IM/E-mail you perhaps think great , someone I can help, or or just wants a chat it makes us feel good? then you find it's a cruel troll how's that going to make you feel not the slightest bit angry depressed I suppose? Yes I too would like to see what these 'people' wrote and perhaps the admin team would be a good idea but in the heat of the moment you say something 'like hey I've had enough and i'm walking' well there's the rub some people can't go back without being asked It's a little thing called Pride/Face. As regards reading e-mail/filters sometimes you have to look at the text to see what they are about and in so doing...well a wise woman once told me "A truth once told can never be untold" this applies to un-truths as well! well this is just my opinion still have a good night everyone it's 1:45 here and I'm giong to bed Dave