By the way, if anyone out there is asking themselves if it is worth contacting the moderators, my personal experience is that it is. I can't say I've ever been harrassed by IM or email (don't get any ideas), but there have been things that have come up that I have brought to the attention to the moderators, and they have been responsive to dealing with it when it was appropriate for them to do so. I've contacted at least five of the moderators at different times so it isn't just one person I happened to have luck with. I tend not to expect immediate results ... it takes time for a situation to be researched and I am sure the moderators have other things to do than attend to special little me ... but I always see some results. I do think that it is worth the effort to contact the moderators if you are having problems dealing with another individual. Some of us dig our own holes (and I've dug plenty in my time) but there's no reason to put up being pushed into one. The moderators are often there to lend a helping hand out if you just extend your hand to them.