I'm a member of a, well, informal talking group of people called "The Sandbox". We have the following motto: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We, the Sandbox members, hereby declare to: - always give the benefit of the doubt, - never to assume worse than is written, - always make clear when we feel offended, - base our relationship on trust. - circa 3/25/97 The Sandbox Members ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ As you can see, the group did that more than 5 years back - and it is still running well. Just a thought: Couldn't we in this forum adopt a motto like this? Willy