LOL! Well, I think, because you don't have children, you don't realize that, what you created, may or may not become what you think they/it should be. I have three,(children, that is) and I am still trying to make some sense of it all. Pooh is one of your "Kids" but, as in life, people outside have changed him into what they want him to be, not what you thought he would grow up to be. Peer pressure, you know? Trust me, IT's NOT your FAULT(: Genny