lol ... Legume - you might be right ... but be carefull - sometimes people simply HAVE to leave 'cause of money-issues, they are just sad or their lifes just changed ... Most people just don't think about the weight of the word 'forever' - but you should give them a chance to think it over ;o). The biggest problem is: Noone reads messages like: I'll leave Renderosity maybe ?? (but - wait - it might's worth a try) For the statement about the negative non-constructive: I think there are limits ... If Legume would call me a total a...h... I would just laugh ... - If I would be called this from an unknown without any reason it would be different. I think all things can be discussed out and banning someone somewhere is the last solution (well, it's a pretty fast and easy one too) and should be thought over well. It's easy to destroy and hurt - but not so easy to build up and heal