There's a saying that my mother told me, after I had been dating Jack for a while.  "True love is not loving someone perfectly, but rather loving someone who is imperfect perfectly."  I don't think it matters how many times you have been married, what matters is realizing none of us is perfect and loving someone with their imperfections not in spite of them.  Jack is perfect for me. I think when the time is right people find each other.   Maybe that is too mushy for this forum, but thought I would contribute to Jack's thread.  

Thank-you Hawk for posting the picture of Jack pole-dancing, it absolutely made my day.  And may I say, he still looks that good.