you said "you might want to try contacting him from my understanding he is very willing to help with his add on"

do you have his email address because you said "from my understanding he is very willing to help" which means you spoke to him right?

also did your look at https://prntscr.com/l4h7mm can you tell which files are mesh files (found in the top right of the screen)?

sorry i meant my "main mesh" (not clothes mesh but the body mesh i was meant to say as my main mesh) to be parented to the armature.

anyway i tried left click on my main mesh (in object mode) then shirt and left click on a bone to parented my main mesh to armature

but i "think" i didn't see any new files on the top right of the screen so i thought it did nothing

if you can't help me please say so or if you could i would say thanks in advance