Hello.... I have some bad news regarding my baby. To everyone who didn't know. I was a month preganet. Well I had went to the hospital by ambulance 1/24/04 for chronic stomach pains. I've had 2 ultra sounds done and to find out my baby was captured in my right tube. It was 3 and a half inches long, and I was 1 month along. DR.Islam told me that my baby was swollen up in the tube and the tube was about to burst. I could have died on Tuesday. I had to have surgury to remove the infected trapped fetus. I was in surgury for 2 or 3 hours. I have 3 little holes in my stomach. Which one is in my belly button. Dr.Islam had stuck a scope in my belly button and had stuck tools in the other holes to cut the tube and remove the pregnacy. Yes I am upset I have lost my baby,but am happy god shed his graces on me and let me live. All i did was cry. I was so upset and so attached to my baby. Even though the fetus was only with me for 1 month. The father of my baby just had gotten out of jail 2 nights ago and I had informed him about my pregnacy the day of the surgury. I had explained to him what happened. He wasn't attached because he had found out the same day it all happened. I can imagin how he feels. Finding out about his new baby and losing it in mothing bout a 7 or 8 hour period. As a man he wouldn't have been attached till the baby was born. "A Man is a Father once a child is born,but a Woman is a Mother once the child is concived". That is something a nurse said to me at the hospital before my surgury. She told me that because I was worried about if the Father cared or not. Many of my freinds and family whom also felt attached to my baby were also hurt when I called them up the news. I am looking to start a internet suport group for woman who lost a new life, a ending is a new begaining. remember that. Coping With Greif, MA (Mothers Anonymous) Support Group E-mail me for details thadymondprynces@aol.com For mothers with an lost only. I feel for you. You never know the feeling till once you felt it. We can all help each other. Just email me with your Name,Age,Location, Your lost and a breif story of your lost. Everys mothers voice should be heard Every child's boorn or unborb story shoud be heard. "A person is a person,no matter how small"-Dr.Suess Thank you gfor your time.