hi , how can i make an object to be poseable/conforming? and does anyone know where i can find a tutorial on making clothes?(for custom characters or koshini..)

That's actually one question, hon :) Answering the second is the key to the first. Your best bet on getting started is to go up to the top of the page and click on the tutorials link up there. In the tutorials, there is an archive of off site ones as well, and there's the old gold. You can also hunt around www.3dmenagerie.com for some of the wonderful tutorials there (or by the book specifically dealing with it) That's a good start. Try those for a while. :D

thou and I, my friend, can, in the most flunkey world, make, each of us, one non-flunkey, one hero, if we like: that will be two heroes to begin with. (Carlyle)