I have poser 6.

I just bought MyLady Hair today.  I have V3 & Aiko3

I unzipped and everything seems to be in the right place, although in my Figures folder I have a folder called Hair so that the hair figures are not just all over the place.  I hope this isn't my problem.  Everything is in the right places just some are in other folders to keep it neat...

Anyway - I was wanting to use a figure called Bambi for Aiko3, I load her up, everything is fine, I go to the figures>hair> MLhair for A3 - Everything is fine.

I go to Pose>Hair>MLhair and "Apply Updo" everything is fine, I take off some bangs, everything is going fine, ok then I apply a mat for hair color like red or blonde, it doesn't matter which color, and the updo comes down and the bangs return and the style goes right back to default w/the color I picked.

I try to apply updo or take away the bangs and nothing ever happens.  What am I doing wrong?

Oh and when should I conform to the figure before or after adding the color?  And should I set parent to, or use conform?

Im sorry Im just a bit confused with the hair lately, I only started a couple weeks ago =/

Please any help would be very appreciated, Im about to pull out my own hair =(

Thanks in advance.