vlaaitje opened this issue on May 07, 2006 · 16 posts
vlaaitje posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 1:47 AM
This is Ger and I.....from 1974
I was 15 there and Ger 19
time flies...we are still a couple....
I met Ger 17 OCTOBER 1973........wow that's a long time ago
we got married in 24-6-1977
Ilona
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vlaaitje posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 1:49 AM
good old memories.......the golden oldies....cool
Ilona
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vlaaitje posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 1:56 AM
His name was Duke...it was a Dane, such a lovely dog he was !!
Ilona
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cynlee posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 10:55 AM
these are wonderful Ilona!!.. so young.. so happy.. in love.. & still together!! you gorgous gal!!
Show me your pictures from long long time ago
when you fell in love with the one you are still married with
hehehe.. if that be the one i am married to now, it would not be so very long ago.. :rolleyes:
vlaaitje posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 1:03 PM
That's why Cynlee....
because the most couples are divorce, once or maybe twice.
I got married with 18....to young for these days....got my first child with 21
we have 3 sons
Sure each marriage has its ups and downs, that's why I created my own space now in my daily life......without any problems......that's very important in a relationship, we are not each other's possession
Ilona
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TomDart posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 2:10 PM
Ilona...I will GUARANTEE and assure you I do not and cannot "own" my wife! She is independent and we get along wonderfully. Well, so am I and no prob with personal space and vaired interests. Why try to bend a reed a direction is it not meant to bend?
Thanks for the pics. Cyn likely speaks for lots and lots of folks in her words. TomFlexible.
danob posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 2:31 PM
Haha nice one Ilona you two have not changed that much over the years
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UKmac posted Sun, 07 May 2006 at 11:38 PM
Show me your pictures from long long time ago
when you fell in love with the one you are still married with
if that be the one i am married to now, it would not be so very long ago.
Same here...............
Steve
ModestyB posted Mon, 08 May 2006 at 3:10 AM
So I couldn't help me self sharing this one with U, Ilona.
My armourbearer Thomas & I have known eachother since I was
17 when we started a band :)
We still have several bands together :)
& 2 sons :)
BIG PUSS & KRAM
&HAPPY SPRIIIIIIIIIIIIIING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
vlaaitje posted Mon, 08 May 2006 at 4:06 AM
oooooooo Cooooool.....hehe the first one that post a picture.....
if you can't scan the pictures, try to make a picture with your cam.....just a tip !!
Ilona
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tofi posted Mon, 08 May 2006 at 8:44 PM
Ilona, my dear.. You are one of the few lucky ones that still holds traditional beliefs and values. That is VERY admirable indeed! In my own personal opinion, not only have "girls gone wild" but the "world" now has as well. The whole institution of marriage has declared official bankruptcy (and others can disagree with me on this one??!!) I have treated many broken marriages in the past with a "different" kind of therapy, and err... i mean, i'm not a frivolous little skank... lol ;) I meant in terms of counselling, that is..... and have come to realize that in this day and age, most of societal values and morals goes by the belief "lets go with the flow". We no longer meet people who prosper and grow in marriages. Now divorce is much too easy to obtain, and hence, its become a "natural solution". Who cares about working through problems, that was " sooo yesterday".... Mind you, for those of us who have tried to repair our marriages, with no success.... I will still stick by the saying: It is better to die on your feet, than to live on your knees ( no pun intended :) ) :) Hugs to all, tofi
A smile is a curve that has set many things straight
vlaaitje posted Tue, 09 May 2006 at 1:19 AM
Tofi: Sure I do understand too if a marriage is a "disaster" then it is better to split up. But these days couples can't talk anymore. Or see the grass greener on the other side. Sure I had hard times too, but we won all the time, because I know what you left, can be more worse in return....not for each couple....but most of the time it works like that way....and you will regret what you left....I am happy the way I live now, I have my own space, can do things I like without any problems.....my hubby is always there for me when I am sick, he can cook, clean my house.....etc etc...but even when he is a good man, I need my own space......lol...he is a hard worker makes a lot overtime, but so do I......house wife and a job together is a hard time too....haha
"Even when you think the grass is greener on the other side, once a year all will be brown again and the fresh smell disappears!!!!"
Ilona
Ilona
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cynlee posted Tue, 09 May 2006 at 4:42 PM
ModestyB posted Tue, 09 May 2006 at 5:25 PM
What a couple..Monte & U, Cindy :)
As like Ilona & Ger...........
& me & my armourbearer Thomas....
The secret recepie......mutural respect & Love :)
Share one more oldie :) Have allready showed I think..but
I think it's kind of cute LOL!!!!!!!!
Thomas & My first pregnacy
Timothy is in the belly..he is now 20 years old..
he has picked up the music :D playing Alice Cooper &
other old goodies...but allso new stuff & he has started to wright
hes own stuff to :)
But thats another story!!
MEEEEEEEEEEEEGA PUSS & KRAAAAAM!!!!!!!!!
respect, free space & lotta love ;)
and as Niu mentioned....the moonproject LOL!!!!
.......Sometimes lotta compromize ;)
xoxoxoxo
vlaaitje posted Tue, 09 May 2006 at 5:30 PM
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh such a gorgous pictures Cyn and modesty.....wow thanks....they look so damn sexy. Hope this is allowed, hahaha.....
Ilona
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cynlee posted Tue, 09 May 2006 at 5:47 PM
hehehe.. damn sexy, yes.. that's a lotta of luuurve.. you are so adorable as a balloon!! megaMUUUAH!