How can I do that?
I'm not trying to be anti-social; but I keep getting requests from people I have never seen/heard of and know nothing about. Actually I'm trying to avoid rejecting these requests so that it isn't perceived as anti-social.
It's just people spamming the member list and it is interfering with my legitimate site mail communications. I don't want to miss real site mail, but I hate checking the box all the time and finding spam friend requests.

Friends don't let friends use booleans.