Dave-So opened this issue on Aug 23, 2008 · 75 posts
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:29 AM
apply it to anything you want.
Humankind has not
woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
1854
originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:31 AM
lmao....peaches?
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:34 AM
at the moment i was thinking of that newly locked thread down below
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Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
1854
MikeJ posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:35 AM
Damn, Dave, I was just about to make a new thread titled, "See what I mean?", but you beat me to it. ;-)
originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:37 AM
lol me too especially as I had just written an essay as a reply....... I hope I don't get a warning as I never mentioned anyones name and I landed up getting bashed.
People didn't seem to grasp the fact I wasn't complaining about the negative comment. If I was I'd have been in every 5 minutes considering I have over 400 images in my gallery and I've grown from that. I've said so many times I've learnt from negative comments. Only yesterday I had one and I thought right I'll remember that when I do another pic. It was the fact this was done purely for insultive/trolling purposes....and not just to me....and it was the fact that it was done to others that made me post. I'll just keep quiet next time.
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:38 AM
lol great minds think alike huh?
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
MikeJ posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:40 AM
Quote - at the moment i was thinking of that newly locked thread down below
You mean the one where the word "moderation" was used, while "consideration", "discussion", or even "pow-wowing" would have been better choices? ;-)
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:45 AM
if it wasn't for the fact Rendo is pretty much the first Poser community I joined up with..well PFO first and the Poser email group ... I would leave in a minute because of the way things are moderated around here. You can't be expressive or open .. it creates problems, plus always results in tension. Rendo is probably the best place for information as well, although it has been stifled a lot by not being able to show other sites new stuff.
anyway, back to the issue at hand, points are often misunderstood or taken in a direction not intended online. I've seen it so many times.
Humankind has not
woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
1854
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:51 AM
Moderation is the process of eliminating or lessening extremes. It is used to ensure normality throughout the medium on which it is being conducted.
now there it is in a nutshell...we don't need no extremists or anything not normal.
That's why artists and creative people object to such attempts. isn't that just peachy
Humankind has not
woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
1854
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:53 AM
Cultural assimilation ?
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woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
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originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:57 AM
Normals boring!
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
MikeJ posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 12:18 PM
Quote - ...t creates problems, plus always results in tension.
That's not necessarily true. I belong to some forums where there's very little along the lines of thread locking and such, where the people self-moderate, and things rarely get out of hand.
Flaming is interesting for only so long, and most people will just get tired of it, or get put in their place so bad they disappear.
Here, however, they lock threads, people get pissed off about it, then start new threads to complain about it, others come in defending the act... and so it goes, the whole cycle stands a good chance to be repeated, when it would have just died down, otherwise.
IMO, the proper "moderation" for that thread (if it even needed any) would have been to move it to the community forum, since it was, after all, kinda OT, and not entirely a Poser thing, not to just lock it.
Oh well, fuck it. ;-)
originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 12:22 PM
lmao @ fuck it...
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
Dave-So posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 12:24 PM
lmao...
well, you can just go lie in a big tub of peach juice, as I am. Its really the pits. and peachy.
Yeah...most threads will iron themselves out, or die off when everyone is tired of the dramatics. the thread in question was really low key and didn't need moderating at all. seemed to be locked at a whim for whatever reason.
Humankind has not
woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
1854
MikeJ posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 12:32 PM
Quote - ...seemed to be locked at a whim for whatever reason.
Absolute power corrupts absolutely. ;-)
jjroland posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 2:50 PM
OMG - I was just going to make a thread about that too. I wonder if someone can tell the new forum coord that not every thread where there is the slightest bit of debate needs to be locked.
"Mwahahaha I have a new lock thread button, I shall use it constantly!!!!!"
This place is getting very whoa -
perhaps they will implement Newspeak soon....
I am: aka Velocity3d
Conniekat8 posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 2:52 PM
What? thread got locked, and I din't even get to participate? I didn't even get to read it...
Now that's just peachy!
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JJ, wanna pretend fight?
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jjroland posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 6:47 PM
sorry connie Apparently under new management and I couldn't so much as disagree with you without a thread lock.
""Now if a Mod does happen to see you, just lay down, roll over and give your privates a good licking. They love it! ""
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originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 6:49 PM
lmao JJ ain't that the truth!
"I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away"
Conniekat8 posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 7:07 PM
Quote - sorry connie Apparently under new management and I couldn't so much as disagree with you without a thread lock.
""Now if a Mod does happen to see you, just lay down, roll over and give your privates a good licking. They love it! ""
Yeaaa... He's new and eager to do his job right... we should cive him some slack ;) ...maybe
We can go and have a pillow fight under the table, where he can't see us right away :tt2:
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JenX posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 10:58 PM
Ok, ok, guys, be nice to the new staff. If I let y'all scare them early, they run away and never come back ;)
Seriously, though, to be honest with you, while I wouldn't have locked the thread (Or moved it to the CC), I think Diadalos did the right thing by getting in there before the the thread went in an argumentational direction.
So, I think we should move on. As for the aforementioned post, the comments may have been harsh, but they're not exactly trolling. The commenter, while being harsh, was giving a critique. If any member does not want harsh critiques from other members, they are encouraged to select the option to not get critiques of your image. Otherwise, I'd say be prepared to hear things you don't want to about your artwork. There is a difference between harsh critique and trolling. Trolling is more like "Yeah, she looked like your mom did last night in my bed" or something equally idiotic and/or insulting.
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originalkitten posted Sat, 23 August 2008 at 11:03 PM
My points being missed again Jeni. If I was moaning about harsh critique or things I didn't wanna hear about my artwork then I'd be in hear everytime someone had left a negative comment on my work. And I wouldn't be a member of the critique forum. The fact is this guy is going around a ton of gallerys doing whatever u wanna call it what he's doing. Surely you don't see a pattern? What he said was not constructive or even harsh criticism. It was insultive. As is his stuff on other galleries. Anyway as previously stated....it wasn't until others said they had had him troll them that made me post. i won't bother being concerned for them in future.
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JenX posted Sun, 24 August 2008 at 3:04 AM
Sometimes criticism can seem insulting, especially to the artist, but most times, an honest critique of someone's work is just that, criticism. Just because it's not a glowing review does not mean he's actually being rude or insulting. It just means that it's probably not what you want to hear.
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jjroland posted Sun, 24 August 2008 at 9:28 AM
Originalkitten,
I'm sorry it really does look like your point is falling on deaf ears now. To me "Another fairy in big boots?...." is not a critique at all. I would think if this person was actually critiquing than there would be instances of him saying something was good - somewhere. Instead going around the galleries saying something absurdly negative on each.
I guess we could look at it from another angle. There are so many BS "oh my it's so fabulous ***** 5STARS" in the gallery - maybe this guy represents the bad balance to that. While often we complain about bogus comment club praises in the galleries, this is really the same but opposite.
I would love it if Rendo would implement something so you could block some users from commenting your images at all. Then we could do away with the good and bad comment club all together - they are both equally insulting I think.*
*I guess that would give some the chance to be very thin skinned and allow only a select few to praise them to high heaven, but I think most would just block people who weren't looking anyway or being jerks. The beligerant hobo isn't normally allowed to wander the live art galleries either =D
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JenX posted Sun, 24 August 2008 at 9:57 AM
Seriously, here's a thought...has anyone sitemailed the guy, asking what, exactly, it is about your work he doesn't like? From my POV, he doesn't actually seem to be trying to insult you or your work. He seems more like he's challenging you. If you're unwilling to take him up on the challenge, let him know! It's not like you have to conform to the viewing preferences of your audience. YOU are the artist. Create what you want. But, if you don't like the critique you get, it's up to YOU to let the person know. We step in when it's REAL trolling. This guy...might seem a bit angsty, but he's actually stated in a previous comment on your work, originalkitten, that he seeks to help you improve your work, not cut you down. My advice is to talk to the guy, see what exactly it is that he sees is the point in the harsh critiques, and maybe even get into a dialog about this.
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Dave-So posted Sun, 24 August 2008 at 1:21 PM
I think the moderators here need to take a look at the original statement...it wasn't about the critque, but about the fact this guy is basically running rampant all over the galleries and pasting snide comments on a lot of images...more of a torment than criticism.
Do I have it right Lou ?
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JenX posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 9:26 AM
Dave, we can see every comment he's made...he's not actually running rampant. In fact, he's made very few comments, and, all of them, while a bit blunt, look like constructive crit. Now, if there's a backstory here that the staff doesn't know about, by all means, please let us know.
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JenX posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 9:30 AM
Also, I want to clarify something...stating, in print, that a member is running rampant in the galleries posting snide comments without showing proof is borderline, if not full-out libel. If you want to show me the proof, I'm for it, but lets keep those kinds of comments out of this, guys.
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Acadia posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 11:42 AM
Quote - post, the comments may have been harsh, but they're not exactly trolling. The commenter, while being harsh, was giving a critique.
I've been thinking about this, and since I can't comment in the other thread, I'll do it here.
I don't think the comments were trolling, and so far as copy/pasting the same thing from image to image, I have no proof of that because we are unable to search a users comments in the gallery to see if they are in fact copy/pasting.
That being said, the comments weren't "critique", they were more in tune with an editorial review (an evaluation of the item) where the reviewer states their point of view for better or worse, and that's it. Not unlike you read in the paper after a new movie, play, art show or restaurant premiers. Were they blunt? Yes. But that is typical of most editorial reviews. A review is just an honest opinion of what the person has viewed and it's not meant to be more than that.
Such comments are not meant to help the person along in their learning by offering ways to improve their work etc.
The fact that he doesn't have a gallery doesn't mean anything. Most of us who go to a movie and review it after the fact for others, have never been in or made a movie ourselves. You don't have to be an artist in order to enjoy looking at and reviewing art. We each know what we like and what we don't like.
Personally I think they should get rid of the "critical/non-critical" statement in the gallery and just make it "comments." Not all comments should have to provide ways to improve something if you have an opinion about the image, be it good or bad.
"It is good to see ourselves as
others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we
are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not
angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to
say." - Ghandi
LostinSpaceman posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 3:29 PM
Quote - Normals boring!
But But but... if we didn't have "Normals" we wouldn't have 3D Meshes!
<Grins, Ducks and Runs>
Dave-So posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 4:15 PM
well then I guess I better keep my f'n mouth closed then,. shouldn't I ?
libel...you guys are going way off the deep end around here.
more frickin legal mumbo jumbo and bs than I ever thought possible in what used to be a nice, friendly, open site.
I feel more comfortable with a gang of rabid monks..at least they are pretty much on the same page.
i think this will be my last post on this site. no loss to any of you guys anyway, except my dollars for the powers.
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Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
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All things connect......Chief Seattle,
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JenX posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 7:18 PM
Like I've said before, if you don't want me to bring it up, quit accusing folk without evidence. If you want to leave, we can't make you stay, but, quite frankly, this is a bit much.
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Dave-So posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 7:21 PM
i agree whole-heartily with that.
over and out
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Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound
together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle,
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Conniekat8 posted Mon, 25 August 2008 at 11:49 PM
Quote - I think the moderators here need to take a look at the original statement...it wasn't about the critque, but about the fact this guy is basically running rampant all over the galleries and pasting snide comments on a lot of images...more of a torment than criticism.
Do I have it right Lou ?
If I got a comment like that guy posted, I'd be thinking, what the heck is his problem, don't like it, beat it. Last thing I would want to do is seek contact and a conversation.
I'm weired that way, when I'm approached with negativity in the name of 'my improvement' I find it disingenuous, and anything but encouraging.
'the beatings will continue till artists improve - nah, I don't work that way. I'm not stupid enough to think that if someone gives me a compliment or two, or even thirty or so, that I've arrived and don't need to improve any more. Negative feedback about something as personal and emotional as artistic expression are very discouraging to me.
Constructive critique, and opinionated criticizing with a little veiled putdown worked in while at it are two very different things. I love the former, not just love, I eat it up. I detest the latter.
I hate the fact that if someone does this on your gallery, you can't delete or get rid of their comment (or bite their head off so they'd stay away), or block them, but just have to take it. :-
I have very low tolerance for people whom can't critique or get their point across without making you feel like crap.
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Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 12:03 AM
There's a book about his kind of stuff, by Jay Carter - Nasty People
I've been known to get in a lot of arguments with people... and they always start with my noticing a few 'invalidating attempts' towards me or someone I care about... and unfortunately my trigger is to go into 'biting their head off' when I spot ot. (Yeah, I know not the best way to handle it)
However, my point here is, I'm not all that unique in the ability to spot and dislike someone's invalidating approach, beit veiled, euphemized or more direct. Last thing I would recommend is to engage woth someone using that approach.
In my case there's also 'riled up past common sense point', and sometimes I do confront people like that on purpose, and use the same tactic on them. Usually they get all huffy puffy and upset.
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IDonn0 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 1:49 AM
I havn't been a member here long and probably shouldn't comment but I just can't resist. It seems to me that if you want comments on your art that your going to get them. This is the real world and it has all types of people with varying levels of ability to communicate. That doesn't mean I would agree with abuse or stalking, but that doesn't seem to be the case here.
This thread and the other are going way over the top IMHO. Not because of the original complaint but the aftermath that has followed. The mod checked it out and determined it wasn't stalking so lets move on. We've had accusations followed by the innapropriate use of legalese and all because of a poorly writen and taken comment? Sheeeesh
Don
Acadia posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 3:55 AM
Quote - I hate the fact that if someone does this on your gallery, you can't delete or get rid of their comment (or bite their head off so they'd stay away), or block them, but just have to take it. :-
I have very low tolerance for people whom can't critique or get their point across without making you feel like crap.
I would like the ability to delete comments in my own gallery too. Not that I would use it very often because I'm not easily offended when it comes to what people post in my gallery.
However, there was a situation years back where someone carried over their disagreement with me from the forums into my gallery, and literally did troll several of my images in their attempt to try and push their agenda, which I did not appreciate at all.
I remember that I did contact a staff member about it and explained how those comments came to be in my gallery, and was told that there was nothing wrong with the comments and therefore they would not be deleted! IMHO who are they to say they shouldn't be deleted when they aren't aware of the context or reason they were put there in the first place? I found them offensive and that's all that should matter.
Now had those comments just been randomly put there, I would have rolled my eyes and left it at that. But because I know the person went from a heated forum discussion directly to my gallery and the comments were made based on the forum thread, indicated to me that there was a personal agenda involved.
Back when the site changed to php, there was a brief window where we actually did have the ability to delete comments from our own gallery, and I took the opportunity to delete those few comments made by that one person. I haven't felt the need or desire to delete any others before or since.
If only the staff have access to the delete button, then when they are asked to delete a gallery comment, they should do it without question.
"It is good to see ourselves as
others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we
are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not
angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to
say." - Ghandi
Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 3:31 PM
Or cases like this:
http://www.renderosity.com/mod/gallery/index.php?image_id=1735002&member
It just pisses me off when peole get jealous of someone else and get mean for no good reason, and take it out on someone else. What creeps! Whether they whine about elitists, or elitists get jealous of someone with lesser technical ability and better social ability getting attention.
I'm not of the thought that people should just sit and take it, and let crappy behavior go without impunity. Not necessarily go out of your way to punish, but having the ability cut them off from having any more contact with you.
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jjroland posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 4:45 PM
""Negative feedback about something as personal and emotional as artistic expression are very discouraging to me.
Constructive critique, and opinionated criticizing with a little veiled putdown worked in while at it are two very different things. I love the former, not just love, I eat it up. I detest the latter.""
Man I couldn't agree more. I pretty much stopped posting images here or even really showing anyone any because although I enjoy constructive critique I do dislike having every image ripped apart. It was basically as you put it "discouraging". I can't explain it any better I guess.
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Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 5:50 PM
Quote - ""Negative feedback about something as personal and emotional as artistic expression are very discouraging to me.
Constructive critique, and opinionated criticizing with a little veiled putdown worked in while at it are two very different things. I love the former, not just love, I eat it up. I detest the latter.""
Man I couldn't agree more. I pretty much stopped posting images here or even really showing anyone any because although I enjoy constructive critique I do dislike having every image ripped apart. It was basically as you put it "discouraging". I can't explain it any better I guess.
Yea, some people think that saying things like, I dodn't like it or I'm tired of this type of images or number of other kinds of negative feedback is critique. Not really. It's destructive criticisam which serves no other purpose then to make the criticized feel better for the moment. I can be an exper with it, as I grew up with it, which is why most of my family is 6000 miles away and I only have contact with them about once a year. I think most people have seen me do it when I no longer care about the discussion or hurting the other person's feelings... LOL
Some people are worried that if they get, or give an 'atta boy' that they'll all of a sudden stop growing. That's just such a crock of bull, and nothing but a cop-out for people wanting to dish out their down their nose negative attitude to make themselves feel better, with impunity or backlash.
When my stepkids or my honey do it, like if we drive by another car with a dog in it, and they het on their high hores how our dog is better looking then this other dog... They usually get an earfull from me about not being mean and acting jealous and being nice.
I get especially mad at my honey because he knows better. Hhe has a masters degree in psychology, and is a nationally accomplished swim coach. It's psych and coaching 101, you don't use negative reinforcement or putdowns to train people, or to interact with them (if you want positive results). Even if there's a valid point there, it gets lost the second the recipient starts feeling bad because the message was couched in negativity.
Most people don't lack in beating themselves up internally, and lack encouragement to get past feeling like they're not worthy and grow. Also, not everyone has the ability, time, talent tools and whatever else it takes to become well rounded high lama artist. Just because they are not, why put them down, or point things that they are not? Usually, the result is people end up feeling bad (to different degrees, whether they show it or admit to it or not. - it's only human.)
While it's also human to be emotionally immature and use putdowns or shaming or bullying of others to make one's self feel better, what I don't like is the lack of tools to limit the exposure to negativity around here. Most places, Usenet, DAZ, I believe deviant art and a myriad other forums and online communities have a feature to ignore a user.
....okay, enough of me on the soapbox here... LOL, I can feel my head morph starting to inflate.
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LostinSpaceman posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:05 PM
I'm sure nobody will like this comparison, but I don't see why everyone can't be given the right to approve comments before they get posted to our galleries like they do on ArtZone or MySpace. No need to involve a moderator at all. And if someone is in a habit of posting trolling comments, the ability to just outright BLOCK them would be a great hinderance to this nonsense.
And Dave, you do have friends here! Even if you're not on my friendslist here, you are on my Artzone buddy list.
pjz99 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:10 PM
I strongly urge everyone to shut the hell up and go drink a beer. Possibly a few beers. I mean that in the nicest way possible. Thanks in advance.
ps: be kind to the environment, recycle your bottles
Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:22 PM
Quote - I strongly urge everyone to shut the hell up and go drink a beer. Possibly a few beers. I mean that in the nicest way possible. Thanks in advance.
ps: be kind to the environment, recycle your bottles
Is that an invitation? Are you buying? :biggrin:
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Khai posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:36 PM
Beeer!?!
pictures invading hordes
bopperthijs posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:41 PM
Perhaps that isn't such a good advice, when I have a few drinks I often make the most stupid remarks and comments, and maybe that's just what's going on here (no only in this thread, but any other overheated thread) : Most of the time people are sitting at their computer in the evening to relax after a hard day work and having some beer, wine, whiskey or whatever, are sooner agitated and no so clear in the mind, at least that what sometimes happens to me, the other day I read my post, and I think, Oh no, did I said that? and it's to late to press the delete button.
Now am I a nice person even when I'm drunk, so most of the time the damage isn't so big, it's more the stupid comments that worries me.
When you are in a pub with friends and you're getting drunk, people and friends notice that and don't take you serious anymore or saying: relax man, goto bed or words alike. But on the internet no one sees if you're drunk or high, or hyper or had a tremendous argue with your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, daughters, sons whatever, and you have to piss off to someone.
What my point is: on he internet you can't see any emotions, you can't see if someone is drunk, or someone is joking, or had a bad day, so my advice: don't get too upset by someone comments and be carefull what you write even when you're drunk. And remember: only friends can hurt you., the others don't matter.
There is a dutch saying: children and drunk people are telling the truth, but I had some glasses of wine so don't take me too serious.
Have you all a nice evening,
Bopper.
-How can you improve things when you don't make mistakes?
Khai posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:42 PM
there's a Horde now... hands Bopper a beer
bopperthijs posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 6:45 PM
Did someone say beer? my wife just asked me when I was going to bed ( it's 1.45 here) but for free beer I'm always staying!
Cheers!
Bopper.
-How can you improve things when you don't make mistakes?
LostinSpaceman posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 7:52 PM
I can't drink beer with my kidneys in their current condition but I can take a pain pill and pass out.
pjz99 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 7:58 PM
Whatever bakes your space cookies, man. We here at Flesh Forge Incorporated do not condone the use of hard drugs and habit-forming pills, but we certainly can't stop you!
Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 8:58 PM
Beeerrrrrrr! I'm parched after that speech!
oh, oops, I'll share.
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LostinSpaceman posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 9:33 PM
Quote - Whatever bakes your space cookies, man. We here at Flesh Forge Incorporated do not condone the use of hard drugs and habit-forming pills, but we certainly can't stop you!
Yeah, I said I could take a pain pill. I didn't say I would. I think I'll go have some Rocky Off Road Ice cream instead! Mmmmmm... Ice cream!
Conniekat8 posted Tue, 26 August 2008 at 10:16 PM
Quote - > Quote - Whatever bakes your space cookies, man. We here at Flesh Forge Incorporated do not condone the use of hard drugs and habit-forming pills, but we certainly can't stop you!
Yeah, I said I could take a pain pill. I didn't say I would. I think I'll go have some Rocky Off Road Ice cream instead! Mmmmmm... Ice cream!
I just had a cup of French Vanilla. It's my version of a 'Happy Meal", I'm quite happy after a few scoops :)
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bopperthijs posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 2:50 AM
Oh no, did I wrote that? :scared:
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SeanMartin posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 4:47 AM
An outa control thread where bodies are flying through plate glass windows and tables are being smashed and *no one told me???
*You guys have any idea how hard it is to maintain a needlessly argumentative reputation around here????? Next time, send me an IM, okay??
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LostinSpaceman posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 11:28 AM
Throws a bowl of ice cream at Sean's back........
JenX posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 7:30 PM
Quote - An outa control thread where bodies are flying through plate glass windows and tables are being smashed and *no one told me???
*You guys have any idea how hard it is to maintain a needlessly argumentative reputation around here????? Next time, send me an IM, okay??
I dunno. The quickest way for me to let ya know is text :P
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dasquid posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 8:25 PM
Quote - Also, I want to clarify something...stating, in print, that a member is running rampant in the galleries posting snide comments without showing proof is borderline, if not full-out libel. If you want to show me the proof, I'm for it, but lets keep those kinds of comments out of this, guys.
Actually stating that is not libel and if they had a sudden hissy fit and decided to try to take them to court for that, the judge would throw it out of court because it is frivolous, now if someone decided to say substantial things about the person that WOULD damage them some how THEN its libel and can be acted on. But, oh boo hoo he said I was running rampant thats libel? :roll:
I aint no freakin shyster. Just using common sense..... something lacking around here at times.
Khai posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 8:29 PM
sho's the beer....whosh whash on the beer run again? hic
matrix03 posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 9:02 PM
Quote - Ok, ok, guys, be nice to the new staff. If I let y'all scare them early, they run away and never come back ;)
Seriously, though, to be honest with you, while I wouldn't have locked the thread (Or moved it to the CC), I think Diadalos did the right thing by getting in there before the the thread went in an argumentational direction.
So, I think we should move on. As for the aforementioned post, the comments may have been harsh, but they're not exactly trolling. The commenter, while being harsh, was giving a critique. If any member does not want harsh critiques from other members, they are encouraged to select the option to not get critiques of your image. Otherwise, I'd say be prepared to hear things you don't want to about your artwork. There is a difference between harsh critique and trolling. Trolling is more like "Yeah, she looked like your mom did last night in my bed" or something equally idiotic and/or insulting.
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Sorry, Jen but I have to disagree with you 100%. that was not a critique Louise was talking about if we're indeed talking about the same person she informed me of today. I saw the insults on the two images which she told me about today in an email and I was very angry about it.
that guy is nothing but a troll. he has no gallery and is going around bashing peoples images and I won't tolerate anyone doing it to a friend of mine and will state so publically if it means confronting them right on the page which it occurred.
I think kitten does some outstanding work and is above average in relation to most people who upload poser images here. her work on realism is something which I am still working on trying to achieve.
imho that clown is only here to make trouble and the staff should consider banning him from this site.
Dave-So posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 10:55 PM
hear hear ...
but I'm sure this thread will get locked as well before it becomes "argumentative". All the mod had to do in the previous one is actually understand what Lou was saying....
I tried to colorize it a bit in this thread after the other was locked so maybe the point would take hold, but no..I'm accused of libel.
now that's just peachy, isn't it?
This place reminds me of the current folks running the US government...they're right, right, and always right, and if you don't agree, you're wrong, and not just wrong but an enemy to be destroyed....or in this case, made to shut up because they don't want to rile the masses...or whomever gets riled here.
A suggestion to the mods ... slow down a bit and understand what you're saying and doing before you pull the trigger. OK...I maybe should do that too...maybe we all need to think a bit. But the least you mods can do is actually try to listen instead of putting the blinders on, which is what appears to happen.
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pjz99 posted Wed, 27 August 2008 at 11:05 PM
Dave: You. Beer. Now.
Conniekat8 posted Thu, 28 August 2008 at 12:09 AM
Ah, here's the beer thread...
Dave, while you;re running in and out of here, can you bring us back like, a 24 pack or maybe two? and a baggie of catnip for me.
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XENOPHONZ posted Thu, 28 August 2008 at 1:10 AM
I am a teetotaler, so no thanks on the beer. But I'll be glad to bring the catnip. My cats like to eat it -- although it seems to have no special effect on them when they do.
BTW - I don't care for peaches or for apricots. I just don't like the flavor. "Diet peach-flavored iced tea" (a glass-bottle concoction frequently found in the refrigerated sections of convenience stores) sounds like an abomination to me -- hey: I don't even like peach cobbler. But other people like it, so to each their own.
LostinSpaceman posted Thu, 28 August 2008 at 1:38 AM
What?!? You've never tried "Nehi Peach Soda"?!?! :tt2:
JenX posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 4:09 AM
Ok, so, I've been told multiple times that I missed the point. From what I gather, originalkitten had problems with some comments on her images. SHE did not name the commenter, that was done later by another poster. Other than riling up folk in the forum, since warnings to the commenter were not wanted (or, by what we looked into, warranted) what was the actual purpose of bringing it up in the forum?
Let's say we just took ok's word (we actually never do that, but, this is a for instance) and went and warned the guy that if he did it again, he was looking at a vacation from being able to comment. Is that really fair? No. THIS is why we ask that, if you have a problem with another member or comments on your images or responses to your threads, you let us know, rather than starting a post in the forum. Whether you like it or not, once a post like that is started, other people start taking up your crusade for you, whether you want them to or not.
Regarding the libel thing...SHOULD anyone have the grounds to file a libel complaint, do you really think they're going to file it against a "Dave-So from Renderosity"? No. They file it against Renderosity/Bondware. THIS is why we worry about unfounded accusations. Once you post it to the internet, it's considered published. If it's not true, and it affects a person in a negative way, they have every right to file a libel complaint, whether the judge sits to hear it is another story. It's enough of a black mark to have a libel complaint against a company. This is why I'm all for sticking to the actual facts, folks. You all have every right to be upset in originalkitten's defense. However, no one has the right to accuse someone of something that they don't know is what's really going on.
I'm not saying you guys don't have the right to an opinon here, but you have to take the responsibility to make sure it's an opinion based on fact and not conjecture.
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SeanMartin posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 6:26 AM
>> I'm not saying you guys don't have the right to an opinon here, but you have to take the responsibility to make sure it's an opinion based on fact and not conjecture.
What??? But that's... that's... reasonable!!!
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Paloth posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 6:54 AM
As far as the libel thing goes, I don’t believe an instance where people are discussing whether or not the comments of a poster constitutes trolling can reasonably be construed as libel any more than a discussion of whether or not someone is being a jerk. It’s a subjective interpretation: a conclusion that isn’t actually harmful to anyone’s reputation or livelihood. It’s certainly a violation of the no personal attacks rule, however.
The conversation might have been possible within the strictures of Renderosity as a generalized debate on what constitutes trolling and trolls. There was no need to point out a possible troll .
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jjroland posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 9:27 AM
Yeah Im pretty sure that critics would be out of business if an opinion constituted Libel. It's whether or not the opinion is presented as fact, not whether or not the opinion is based on fact.
Again with the legal expert thing..
wikipedia ftw
""Another important aspect of defamation is the difference between fact and opinion. Statements made as "facts" are frequently actionable defamation. Statements of opinion or pure opinion are not actionable. In order to win damages in a libel case, the plaintiff must first show that the statements were "statements of fact or mixed statements of opinion and fact" and second that these statements were false. Conversely, a typical defense to defamation is that the statements are opinion. One of the major tests to distinguish whether a statement is fact or opinion is whether the statement can be proved true or false in a court of law. If the statement can be proved true or false, then, on that basis, the case will be heard by a jury to determine whether it is true or false. If the statement cannot be proved true or false, the court may dismiss the libel case without it ever going to a jury to find facts in the case."
Rendo should have a permanant link to the wiki article as often as that is brought up here.
But for example:
If someone blatantly lies about a member in a forum. It is obviously a provable lie. Then the member takes that issue to Moderators and they do nothing, not even respond to the member. Then rendo would be in liable.
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PJF posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 9:53 AM
Ahh, I drop in the Poser forum once in a blue moon and it seems there's always one of these threads running. Even the US govt gets a mention. Love it! Of course, I say "seems" because to say categorically that there is always one of these threads running would (perhaps) be seen as libellous and I'd hate to see someone laughed at by a judge.
There's always something special about a crushing of dissent thread where the dissenters feel crushed because they weren't allowed to crush a dissenter. Come along chaps, if you want to be free-speaking artist-radicals you're just going to have to learn to take it on the chin when your latest creative expression is compared unfavourably to the appearance of your mother during fornication the previous evening.
And fuck, you can even say "fuck" in the forums nowadays and not have your account suspended by someone inanely irritating who also feels the need to explain to you the benefits of a caring and sharing community (fuck that, too!). Off topic rants and political slap fests are permitted. Even I'm starting to like what they've done with the place. Isn't competition marvellous?
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3-DArena posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 6:40 PM
whoa! I just popped in because I was shocked to see PJF's name at the end of this thread.
carry on...
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PJF posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 7:01 PM
Hey, having long given up hope for awe, I'll run with shock...
Please be assured the larger text above was a formatting blunder. I seek attention as much as the next sad little centre of the universe, but generally have enough reserve to not shout about it.
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patorak posted Fri, 29 August 2008 at 7:14 PM
*And fuck, you can even say "fuck" in the forums nowadays and not have your account suspended by someone inanely irritating who also feels the need to explain to you the benefits of a caring and sharing community (fuck that, too!). Off topic rants and political slap fests are permitted. Even I'm starting to like what they've done with the place. Isn't competition marvellous?
Wow!...So who was runnin' the place back then Ward or June Cleaver?
SeanMartin posted Sat, 30 August 2008 at 7:28 AM
Quote - Wow!...So who was runnin' the place back then Ward or June Cleaver?
Nope, it was the owners of the site.
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Dave-So posted Sat, 30 August 2008 at 8:52 AM
back from the grave: And those owners are gone now too. that was back when the place was a tad more open and friendly than now though.
Although..there are now about 100,000 more members here, so you're bound to end up with a few more aholes than before.
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patorak posted Sat, 30 August 2008 at 10:54 AM
*Although..there are now about 100,000 more members here, so you're bound to end up with a few more aholes than before.
Ah...Kinda reminds me of when webtv came out.