When it comes to lighting and rendering stuff I'm so in over my head. I was happily getting what I wanted until I rendered. Then this junk showed up.  The arrows are pointing to the problems. I'm hoping someone can help.

First, I can't seem to find a setting that will give a soft AO shadow instead of the hard line between the lips as shown here.

AO settings are: Samples-3, Max Dist-12, RayBias-0.4 in Inches. High Quality render settings .

The second thing is the light reflection on the eyelid instead of on the eyeball. I'm using just a basic portrait light setting with fill, key, spec and a hair light. I've never had this happen and don't know what to do...

If anyone has any hints, I would really appreciate it.