I guess is dumb question, I hate to bother you all with it, but it has caused my tired, sleepy head to mess up many scenes, and much rebuilding of characters.
      I will try to place in order, so not confuse.

1. I make character and add genitals.

2. Then I save character complete with Genitals on it.

3. Then I call character back out to use in scene.

4. But Genitals are always first, not character.

5. If i do not remember to reach and select character. I will start posing genitals.
     ( this makes big, big mess sOme times.)

6. is there any simple way to Make it sOo character is always on top.
      ( because it is what I call to work with, Not Genitals, they are just and extra Item.)

7. It does not seem to have anything to do with alphabetical order.

8. Could sOme one Please help me understand, and maybe fix this.