hi
i have some question about make change cloth without lose the conform. (cr2)
this is the process:

1. i take conform cloth (coat for m4 pirate) & export from poser as obj type
2. i  import to 3dmax & i make change on the cloth (i delete the fold.s see picture attached)  
3. i export from 3dmax as obj type
4. i import in to poser.

my  question  is :

1. which check box i need to select on export option when i export from poser ?
2. which check box i need to select on import option when i import to 3dmax ?
3. which check box i need to select on export option when i export from 3dmax ?
   4.  which check box i need to select on import option  when i import to poser again ?

& all this for not to lose the conform cloth properties that cr2 orginal coat is work on my coat that i change ?

 Thanks to all answers