In the last month, I have had the worst experiences in my life as a writer. In one month I have been invited into three groups, all of which are making rpg worlds and each of them thought highly of my writing abilities. In short, they wanted my critique on their work but after I sent one in for each of them, I am not only booted out but flogged and battered verbally on the way. I don't agree with candy coating my critiques or stroking one's ego saying things like, "That's nice dear." or "Oh yes dear, that's a wonderful story." I don't see anyone as a writer or any sort of artist ever able to grow in their field of study in this manner. And I firmly believe that by being a "Critic Badger" can equally stifle one's growth in any sort of art they are in. My problem is simply this, I can't find my mid-point. Are there classes for this or even an online document to coach critics so that they don't hurt peoples' feelings? I am tired of being verbally flogged by the "touchy" people. :)