For My Father by Forevernyt
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On January 8th, 2006 (my birthday), my father lost his battle with cancer. Last November, he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He suffered through an operation, rounds of chemotherapy and radiation treatments and untold amounts of pills and medicines.
In the end, the battle was too great. The disease had taken it's toll. It stripped him of his ability to do the things he loved; to sit on the floor and play with the grandkids, to go fishing, to eat good food and so on. He was a very strong man, who survived a major heart attack 7 years ago. He walked around for three days before going to the hospital, he even went to work. They sent him home and that's when he went to the doctor's office and they told him, they did not know why he was still alive. One triple bypass later and he was fine. So, I look at it, as we've had him for an extra 7-8 years.
Last Sunday, at 3:15pm, after saying his goodbyes to loved ones and friends, with his wife and daughter in the room, he smiled at them and slipped away.
Thursday was the viewing and there were so many people. I didn't know half of them and it surprised me somewhat to see just how many lives my father had touched. You never really think about what your parents do and how they act when you're not around. I was very proud of him.
So, it is with a very heavy heart, that I bring this news to you. I'm dedicating this image to his spirit and to my mother. Mom, I love you and I know that he's still looking out for you.
I love you dad.
Comments (43)
RGUS
Mate... what can I say... left a really good commetn on your image before you deleted it... so... to your Dad... I give the honour of knowing his son... you've said some really nice words here for your Dad but I can related to "I was very proud of him"... I said the same to my Dad just before he left us... my thoughts buddy... take real good care... and tread gently... Love ya heaps... Top man, top man.... TOP IMAGE!
dayna2
((((Hugs)))) Beautiful Nyt Beautiful tears in my eyes for you! Dayna xxoo
ToniDunlap
Dearest Rich, It is a beautiful dedication. When I first knew of your Dad's illness I thought I understood and you know that my heart was always with you and your family. Now I know first hand what it's really been like for you. It is my turn to fight this dreadful disease with my Ronald. It is so tough but fight we will. As we say so long to your great Papa, please know that our hearts are always with you. Love you much, Toni.
venerella
Sorry hun... He sure is better now than here where was suffering so much, and those dearest will suffer on this Hearth because they'll miss him badly.... Sorry you have to go through this, would wish helping... my thoughts are with you, hugs :)
kales1
I am very sorry to hear this my friend! And I know how you are feeling, because today I was at the funeral of my brother in law. He was only 43 and died of a massive heart attack. I was also suprised to see the amount of friends he had, suprised but glad. My thoughts are with you my Friend, and this image is a beautiful dedication.
Shakti27
Sorry to hear that but he is now without suffering and free of pain HUGEST HUGS this is a really beautiful image hun and I know he is so very proud of you from where he is now.
jif3d
My sympathies to you Rich and your family, like you said you all got an extra 7-8 years, which is never enough for anyone, your dedication is awesome, kool work and just remember always: "A BEAUTIFUL SOUL IS NEVER FORGOTTEN" Cheer's bloke from Jeff :o)
SophiaDeer
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. To have him pass on your birthday is even sadder. This is a beautiful image in his memory.
1010
Hugs for you sweetie, a very difficult time lies ahead for you and your family, praying his memory will help in the emptiness you are all feeling now. Please take care Rich......
Danceswithroos
Oh Rich! This is so sad. I could only imagine how hard it must be for you and your family. This is a wonderful dedication I bet He would have loved it! Keep your head up mate!
Krid
great scene with excellent pose and lightning
visualgirl
What a brave man you had as a father. I am sorry to hear of his passing. I know how devestating it is to lose someone you care about. I always believe that our loved ones are never truly lost to us for as long as we can share with someone our memories. I found a small book years ago that I gave to my mother. It was like a little journal that had questions about her life. Kind of like a diary that she will leave for my sister and I. Take care and hollar if you need anything.
gothicenchantedangel
This is a beautiful dedication for your Father. I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
ZeroEffect
Well this is the most touching and beautiful image. I'm sure if he could tell you, he would say the same. My thoughs are with you and your family. What a heartfelt image.
partyotwo
Rich, very nice, your Mom also thought it was nice and enjoyed everyones comments. J
Digimon
Oh man........no words...Though I do have some idea what it is like, I can only say I am deeply sorry to hear this. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
jjean21
I am so, so sorry to hear about your Father..your dedication is so moving and your love so very evident in your words and I'm certain he was as proud of you as you are of him. A very beautiful image in his memory.
Bernado
I'm sorry to hear about this. I know there's no words anybody says that can help you but it's how life goes. I'm sure your father was a great man and he would have loved this image. Excellent dedication. He will live forever in your heart. Take care.
awadissk
Excellent image very nicely done work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Eldeago
Awesome work!
originalkitten
Aww huney I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your father sounded like an extraordinary guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. You did your father proud, not only with this fantastic piece of art, but your words are so touching and so profound. You brought tears to my eyes and I know your father is smiling down on you. Big hugs hun xoxoxox
DonaKuka
I am sorry of your loss: Certanly you have greated a splendid image in your father's honor!
Shardz
I can certainly relate to this story with the exception that I was 3,000 miles away when my dad passed away and it still wreaks havok on my heart even after a decade. My thoughts and sentiments are with you and your family in this time, and it a positive note to think you had some extra time with him that possibly wouldn't have been granted. This is a marvelous dedication and memorial and I think he would very much be proud to see this and all the friends you have made here, albeit online, as well! Keep the positive thoughts going and try to move forward without forgetting the past, Rich. Excellent work and tribute!
Burpee
Rich, your loving comments bring tears to my eyes. I did not know your father was ill so this is quite a shock to me. It sounds like he was a wonderful and giving man. I wish I had known him because he raised a wonderful son. All my prayers.
ericfarris
A magnific tribute to your father!! I lost my father in 2001 and I can understand what is your feeling!!!! All my thoughts are with you and your family!!! Be strong!!!!! - Excellent work!!!!
ArtByMel
It is a very beautiful image, and a dedication that brought tears to my eyes. To this day, when I thin of my father, when I speak of him, my throat still gets tight, it still hurts. I am so very sorry for your loss.
bybydvd
I am sorry for your pain ...A prayer for you and your family.Wonderful tribute and image.
meselfr
I am sorry for your loss... thoughts/prayers are with you... excellent pic
GRiMAge
A most beautiful and touching dedication, and even more touching words, for your father - my condolences to you...
chrislenn Online Now!
It doesn't seem so long ago I posted for the same reason Oct 19 less than 2 weeks after my birthday. I am so sorry and know what you are going through. Your father would be so very proud of this dedication