I enjoyed this, very interesting writing, yet to answer the question: Stop thinking for them, mind your own business. The fear goes away, when we each realize who is producing the "thoughts" that brings it about in the first place. When we each realize nothing good comes of thoughts as such. When we realize who they hurt, as in just because someone may smack me in the head with a frying pan, does that mean I should smack myself in the head with a frying pan before the other person gets an opportunity to do so, because I thought he or she would? What if, that person does not do as I thought he or she would do? What have I done to me, what are the consequences of my own, thoughs, and possible actions, because I was thinking for others? Whom else might I hurt when I hurt myself? If I did not think for others would "fear" exist? In addition, what is the overall problem? "Fear" What is the reality of fear? "Hate" Are we all a part of the problem in one form or the other, because of thinking for others, or is it truly as often written about, just one sided? Personal opinion, we are all a part of the problem, because we all put words into the mouths of others, i.e., "think" for others. My apologies this is so long. Excellent writing, this just got me to thinking, and I thought aloud. Anyhow, thank you for sharing.