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ALZHEIMER'S WARD

Writers People posted on Feb 23, 2008
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PRELUDE “She’s a character!” - hoisting her nightie, peeing in the street: kinfolk fail to laugh. ON THE WARD Hobble, hop: one shoe shy, he seeks. Hand held she navigates on gnarled naked feet. “How’s your poor thumb?” She closely scans her ring finger And declares it fine. Remote control flung because the programme wouldn’t change: stubborn old fish-tank. “See me again again again,” her litany of remembered visits, from a sister long dead. ”Why don’t you roger me?” she cackles: a passing nurse smirks “I’m first! Join the queue!” “Santa to see you” Gladys looks, scowls, coughs, spits - “Kiss my arse,” she shouts. ---------------------------------------------------- TWO SISTERS This is the story of two girls, Annie [the elder] and Gladys [the younger]. Annie received this letter from her father: “Dear little girl I am looking through the door of my little hut and can see the Cows eating their tea and the Bunnies running about and the Great Big Sea with little Ships sailing on it, and next door to us is a big field where all the potatoes grow and little girls come and dig them up and put them into baskets, and outside is a Soldier with a Gun marching up and down watching that know one steals the flowers would you like to come and gather some in a little basket and take them home to Gladys, then you can walk down to the sea-shore and gather the nice shells and play at making sand pies wouldent it be fun tell Doris and Edith all about it and it would make you grow a big big Girl your mother says you have been a very good Girl so I will buy you a nice frock when I come home From Your Father With Kisses and Love x x x x x x x” Father did not come home from the War. He was reported ‘missing presumed killed’ in March 1918 – seven months before the end of the Great War. The two sisters were brought up by their widowed mother, who supplemented her measly pittance of a pension by her skill as a garment maker – as is plain to see in the photograph. Despite the obvious financial and social difficulties, the girls grew up as happy loving sisters and into healthy and vivacious young women. However, further tragedy was not far away. When Annie was just thirty she suffered a dreadful accident at work in which she lost the fingers of her right hand in an unguarded carding machine. The firm was taken to court, and found to be negligent, but since it was ‘the first accident of its kind’ they were fined the pitiful sum of 30 shillings [£1.50]. No monetary compensation was awarded to her family. It is not untypical of the rudimentary health care of the times that Annie tragically developed septicaemia and died. Gladys and her mother were, naturally devastated. Mother never truly came to terms with this, and more and more often took to her bed with ‘mystery’ ailments, leaving Gladys and her new young husband to look after her, which they did with commendable devotion. Gladys then lost her mother, and when the grieving was over looked forward to a good life with her beloved husband. But it was not to be – not long afterwards her husband also died. Much to Gladys’ regret they had no children. The widowed Gladys was resourceful and fiercely independent. Indeed, her strong personality – in all honesty she was belligerent, foul-mouthed and opinionated – caused her to be known in her Avenue as Gladiator Gladys. She was tolerated by most adults because she had a remarkable sense of humour. Kids loved her irreverent feisty attitude and bawdy sense of fun. One incident illustrates this: I used to act as taxi driver for Gladys for all family gatherings such as Christmas parties. She always – for reasons only known to her – insisted on me, rather than other closer male relatives. I can’t say I was too happy because it meant that I had to stay ‘dry’ for the whole of the festivities. On one occasion she accused me of ‘looking up her skirt’ whilst I helped her into the car. The only way to deal with Gladys is to answer in kind, so my response was, “I’ve seen it all before, Gladys, but better!” She guffawed uproariously and retorted, “Well, I’ll leave ‘em off next time!” “You’d get the same answer,” I countered. Game, set and match to me, for a change! She cared for herself – with what little help she would allow from surviving relatives - until she was 89 years old, when she developed Alzheimer’s disease. She was placed in a special unit receiving treatment, although there is no likelihood of a recovery. She stayed in the same facility, with superb caring nurses, until Monday last week when the doctors decided that she was fit to move to a private nursing home. I had my doubts because she was so settled where she was - but the doctors know best, don’t they? Later that week I went on a short break and on Thursday morning I received a telephone call from the police at my hotel. Gladys died in the early hours of St Valentines Day, and was buried on Thursday. I hope she believes in an afterlife and a husband waiting for her. Two sisters, two very different tragedies. R.I.P Gladys ……………………………………………………… Cover picture - Gladys on her 90th Birthday [you can still see traces of her chocolate birthday cake around her lips] with a typical Gladiator Gladys expression.

Comments (20)


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Angelwave

5:32AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

happy trails to you Gladys, and you my dear were quite the friend

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eternalwytch1

6:24AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

She's with her loved ones now, young again and dancing with her husband. Wonderful tribute to an amazing woman.

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RodolfoCiminelli

6:44AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

Excellent integral realization my dear friend.....!!! Congratulations.....!!!!

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STEVIEUKWONDER

7:03AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

Stirring words from your very adept hands Mike. Lot of deep feeling here Sir. You make a VERY valid point. Excellent! Steve :o)

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meico

8:00AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

I'm not sure if external links can be added: this is to a picture of the Two Sisters from badly damaged photographs found whilst clearing her house. I restored them and framed the result for Gladys' room in the Home. http://www.flickr.com/photos/7911705@N07/2265594170/sizes/o/

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BlueLotus7

8:07AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

I love her! She's the kind of woman friend that's hard to find today. I'm quite sure her life now is joyful and full of the love that has waited so long for her. Thank you, for sharing her story and helping her to live on in the memories of each one who reads this.

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TallPockets

8:20AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

A MOST wonderful tribute work, Meico! Although I'm not Irish, I offer you this toast: "May YOU be in HEAVEN before even the Devil, himself, knows you're there". CHEERS, my friend!! TallPockets.

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kansas

8:52AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

Wonderful story. Life is harsh for some. She had lots of fight in her. A wonderful tribute.

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idiot_sphinx

9:50AM | Sat, 23 February 2008

A touching relization and well worth reading !! Beautifully told as always !

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DennisReed

1:18PM | Sat, 23 February 2008

Awesome write-up, and Gladys personality & life - so close to my Mother's in many ways. Thanks for telling her story!

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AusPoet

3:48PM | Sat, 23 February 2008

Oh, this is so moving, Mike. Thank you so much for sharing something so special.

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amota99517

11:51PM | Sat, 23 February 2008

This is an amazing story and one that I'm glad that you shared. I'm sure that she will not e forgotten.

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auntietk

8:54PM | Sun, 24 February 2008

A wonderful tribute to Gladys. Thank you for sharing her story with us. Beautifully written!

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D.C.Monteny

10:17PM | Sun, 24 February 2008

So strong and deeply moving. Thanks for sharing this.

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mamabobbijo

6:30PM | Mon, 25 February 2008

A wonderful tribute, from a dear friend. touchingly crafted. Thanks.

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helanker

6:39AM | Tue, 26 February 2008

This is the most sweet tribute I have seen and a wonderful shot of her too. This is so touching, also because I have a mother at 95 with Alzheimer. Thank you for sharing this.

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beachzz

1:53AM | Fri, 29 February 2008

What a wonderful story; she sounds like the kind of woman I'd like to be when I'm 90!!! Thank you for sharing her life with us.

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amirapsp

4:55PM | Sat, 01 March 2008

Precious image...

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Meglaurel

6:43PM | Tue, 11 March 2008

This could have been my mother....passed on in '95...oldest son a hydrocephaelic (born 7 years too early for cure) with 6 more children in tow she took on nieces and nephews when needed care for; wrote, painted, sewed and developed in each of us a unique way of expressing ourselves; was the neighborhood "woman tyrant" who knew every 4 letter word and then created even more in her colorful way of expressing herself. But oh the humor. She wrote for a local newspaper in Kansas City under the editors remarks...bylines....her opinions and topics were out there "just to make us think" (created lot of outrage on some topics) smiling...forever smiling on Sunday Morning. Gladys was "remembered" and enriches not just your memories but also sparks others. What a tribute you have written; and know only too well myself the "exchanges" that when thought back on make you smile inside while silently keeping tally of the "gotchas" Thank you sir.

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leanndra

5:23PM | Tue, 08 April 2008

A sad story. I am sure you were a blessing to her. (My grandmother had alzheimers disease).


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