I am sorry to have to say this, but for anyone unaware Mike sadly passed away in Decmber of 2009. He will be sorely missed by us all, Martin (Stepson)
It is, I suppose, inevitable that my upbringing has had a profound effect upon what I am, and in turn how my approach to art has developed.
My early years were spent in the Valleys of South Wales - a schizophrenic environment when the landscape of miners' terraced houses clinging to the hillside segues seamlessly into crags and fern-garnished mountainsides, vigorous brooks and secluded woodland. Musicality, lyricism and a love of spoken language are all part of my Welsh heritage and I think they are all discernable in my written works. My father was killed in WW2 and my widowed mother married a man from Manchester in the north-west of England. To say this development was a culture-shock to me is an understatement - I hated my new home, and my new family. Wales was - and remains - the place I call home, though we only visited there each summer holiday every year until my mid-teens.
Apart from those early years and visits, a further two years living semi-rough on the resort coast of North Wales, three years at College in Chester, and a single year working in the Fenlands of East Anglia, I have lived and worked in Manchester. The earthy and grounded tones in my work are directly attributable to my childhood and adolescence in the back streets of this soot-stained, grimy industrial city. My passion - and my life's work - for the education of children with special educational needs arose purely by accident: during the summer of one of those years on the North Wales Coast I worked at a Holiday Camp., and was asked, as a favour, to be 'Uncle' and look after the guests' children, arranging activities etc. The problems of one or two children who simply didn't fit in affected me deeply, and pointed me in the direction of my future career.
If asked what my influences are I could be ridiculously trite and say 'life' and given that I've lived more than sixty reasonably eventful years, there'd be more than a modicum of truth in that. However, in terms of literary influences, here goes: I've always been a voracious and woefully indiscriminate reader, although until I was in my late teens my reading was almost exclusively non-fiction. I was a typical back-street philistine late-fifties teenager interested in birds, booze and Buddy Holly - in that order. It wasn't until I reached my late teens that I began to read anything of interest, but when I did I devoured everything - Satre, Camus, Kerouac, Dostoyevsky, and Nietzsche. Poets included the beat poets Ferlinghetti et al, Blake, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Baudelaire, Rilke, Lorca, Cummings and a selection of contemporary British poets, Dylan Thomas, T S Elliott, Christopher Logue, Ted Hughes and [ironically] Sylvia Plath. Of these, I think only G M Hopkins and Dylan Thomas had any stylistic impact on my work, and then not deliberately.
Until the age of 18 art was of minor importance only - I wrote the odd poem purely as an elaborate 'chat-up line' - but my main academic interest lay in science. It was assumed that I'd go to University and end up in medical research. However, a chance friendship with an art specialist changed all that. After a few visits to pubs I discovered that I was moderately skilled in sketching likenesses: this led to portraits with pastels and then oil-painting. I was hooked. My friend sent a folio of my work to an art college and I was offered a place, much to my mother's dismay and disgust, because I'd also been offered places at Oxford and at Aberystwyth Universities to read sciences.
The upshot was that, after a catastrophic row, I turned down all the offers, left home and for two years drifted aimlessly in North Wales hardly earning enough to feed and house myself let alone afford to buy art materials. The experience with children in the holiday camp seemed like the answer to my problem - I could have a 'proper job' and still have time to make pictures and write. I made my peace with my mother, did a year's unqualified teaching to be sure I'd made the right choice, and as a compromise accepted a Teacher Training Course specialising in Art and in Human & Social Biology. At college, I exhibited and sold my first pictures and also had some poems published in college magazines.
For ten years I combined committed teaching with a moderately successful period of art production. Headship, however, requires a great deal more involvement, and the amount of spare time for painting and writing diminished year by year, until by my mid-forties I was totally wrapped up in my work to the exclusion of every other interest. My son's suicide changed all that. Art provided an essential outlet for the mental devastation of this tragedy, and for the trauma of a distinctly nightmarish final year of teaching leading to premature retirement. I don't exaggerate when I say that Art - pictures and writing - and the opportunity to 'publish' online saved my sanity.
There has been more than one defining moment in my life:
a. my sudden switch to art, leaving home, and the final choice of teaching as a career
b. my marriage and horrific divorce after 15 years
c. my son's tragic suicide [aged 29]Â - my promise to him led to online publishing
d. my premature early retirement after gross mismanagement by my employers
I'm married for the second time and have a stepson and stepdaughter, in addition to my own two daughters - and 8 grandchildren [to date!]
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Comments (20)
Angelwave
happy trails to you Gladys, and you my dear were quite the friend
eternalwytch1
She's with her loved ones now, young again and dancing with her husband. Wonderful tribute to an amazing woman.
RodolfoCiminelli
Excellent integral realization my dear friend.....!!! Congratulations.....!!!!
STEVIEUKWONDER
Stirring words from your very adept hands Mike. Lot of deep feeling here Sir. You make a VERY valid point. Excellent! Steve :o)
meico
I'm not sure if external links can be added: this is to a picture of the Two Sisters from badly damaged photographs found whilst clearing her house. I restored them and framed the result for Gladys' room in the Home. http://www.flickr.com/photos/7911705@N07/2265594170/sizes/o/
BlueLotus7
I love her! She's the kind of woman friend that's hard to find today. I'm quite sure her life now is joyful and full of the love that has waited so long for her. Thank you, for sharing her story and helping her to live on in the memories of each one who reads this.
TallPockets
A MOST wonderful tribute work, Meico! Although I'm not Irish, I offer you this toast: "May YOU be in HEAVEN before even the Devil, himself, knows you're there". CHEERS, my friend!! TallPockets.
kansas
Wonderful story. Life is harsh for some. She had lots of fight in her. A wonderful tribute.
idiot_sphinx
A touching relization and well worth reading !! Beautifully told as always !
DennisReed
Awesome write-up, and Gladys personality & life - so close to my Mother's in many ways. Thanks for telling her story!
AusPoet
Oh, this is so moving, Mike. Thank you so much for sharing something so special.
amota99517
This is an amazing story and one that I'm glad that you shared. I'm sure that she will not e forgotten.
auntietk
A wonderful tribute to Gladys. Thank you for sharing her story with us. Beautifully written!
D.C.Monteny
So strong and deeply moving. Thanks for sharing this.
mamabobbijo
A wonderful tribute, from a dear friend. touchingly crafted. Thanks.
helanker
This is the most sweet tribute I have seen and a wonderful shot of her too. This is so touching, also because I have a mother at 95 with Alzheimer. Thank you for sharing this.
beachzz
What a wonderful story; she sounds like the kind of woman I'd like to be when I'm 90!!! Thank you for sharing her life with us.
amirapsp
Precious image...
Meglaurel
This could have been my mother....passed on in '95...oldest son a hydrocephaelic (born 7 years too early for cure) with 6 more children in tow she took on nieces and nephews when needed care for; wrote, painted, sewed and developed in each of us a unique way of expressing ourselves; was the neighborhood "woman tyrant" who knew every 4 letter word and then created even more in her colorful way of expressing herself. But oh the humor. She wrote for a local newspaper in Kansas City under the editors remarks...bylines....her opinions and topics were out there "just to make us think" (created lot of outrage on some topics) smiling...forever smiling on Sunday Morning. Gladys was "remembered" and enriches not just your memories but also sparks others. What a tribute you have written; and know only too well myself the "exchanges" that when thought back on make you smile inside while silently keeping tally of the "gotchas" Thank you sir.
leanndra
A sad story. I am sure you were a blessing to her. (My grandmother had alzheimers disease).