JOHNNY 12.16.2010 by mikeerson
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DECEMBER 16TH, 2010... I made it back to work Thursday - first time since Sept 8Th (Hernia)... when I got home My Wife's cousin called and asked if we could pick him up some 7up, Gatorade, Popsicles, Ice and tp, he had been sick and throwing up the day before. He believed it was food poisoning. He had ordered a beef dish from an oriental restaurant. We picked up the stuff and went over to his place. He answered the door right away. We went in and his appearance looked like a person suffering from a hangover - tired droopy eyes, a little sluggish, words slurred just enough to notice a difference. we put his items away. he had a 7up. went out to the front room and sat in a chair. he spit out some fluid that was clear, probably the 7up. His throat was soar from throwing up. He said thanks for getting the stuff. I told him he looked really skinny. he told us he hadn't thrown up in a couple hours and thought the 7up would help. he told us he was going to rest. We asked if he wanted to go to the Doctor and he thought drinking the 7up and resting would make him feel better. his cell phone rang and I handed it to him, it was his Dad so we said good bye.
when we got home, he called us a half hour later and said he was doing better.
less than 24 hours, his friend went over and found him dead on the couch. We are waiting on the autopsy results. I called work today and am off til Monday. He was only 37. He was My Wife's Cousin who came out to Colorado from Chicago hoping to be a part of his Daughter's life. My Wife had never met him before, but Johnny had worked With Holly's Dad many years ago. When Johnny arrived in Colorado at our home, it was Christmas Eve. He Came in and we showed him his room and asked if he wanted to go to church with us, he declined because he was tired. He stayed with us for about 4 months and found an apartment that touched our property line - it was the first lease he had ever signed. A new owner bought his complex and he was forced to move because of him owning a dog. He moved next door to where we could see his bedroom window from ours. He moved out to Colorado to be with his Daughter Emily. Sarah, his ex, moved out here thinking he wouldn't come. He was a good man and tried his best to be in his Daughter's life. He did finally decide to take her to court for visitation Rights. He won to where he could have her every other weekend. He wanted Emily to sleep over when he had her on the weekends and the Mother would not work with him. Yesterday the Mother stopped over and we talked for about 15 minutes, she left to go to the apartment complex to pick up Johnny's Dog Moe. At this point, We really don't know what he died from. My Wife is having a hard time with it and thinking we should of taken him to the Hospital - We really didn't see "the danger signs".
Since being at home from the hernia, I've spent a lot of time on the computer and Renderosity. I'm back to work now.... and with what has just happened with Johnny, My Wife needs my time, so I'm going to have to say good bye for now.
You know I'll be back, I love this place and my friends. I wish you all a Wonderful Merry Christmas and a Happy New year.
PS.... I know in the past when my friends here have lost a loved one I've encouraged them to keep posting, to help keep their mind on creativity instead of the reality... I would keep posting, but I need to spend time with my Wife - she needs me, thanks for spending the time to read, you are a caring person.
Comments (53)
MrsLubner
A sad tragedy. Anytime a young life is ended, it digs deep in the heart. I do hope your questions are answered and you can put this to rest. We do the best we can to help others we love and that is all we can do.
RodS
Oh, man.... That's just an awful thing to happen. I'm so sorry to hear of this tragedy for your family. It's hard enough when it's expected, but to lose someone like this is so painful! My thoughts and prayers are with you, my friend! I'll light a candle for Johnny tonight. Take care of your wife, and family, Mike, they come first. We'll be here for you, my friend! God bless and comfort you in this difficult time.
Madbat
Whoa, that's got to be hard to deal with. You need to take care of your family first man, and yourself. Don't work to hard, life's to short for that shit.
angelafair
Oh Mike...I am so deeply sorry for your loss, you take care of things there in your life and be there for your wife, she does need you at this time! I know you'll be back! I really wish you and Holly a VERY Merry Christmas (considering)! Hug Holly for me, and tell her to be strong! I know I am MANY miles away from you guys, but ya need anything, sight mail me, I'll do what I can! Love to you both! ((((HUGS))))
adrie
I am so sorry forr your loss, please take good care of your wife and also for your self....you are a wonderful person who love so many peopple. I will pray for you and your wife.....take the time you and your wife need...we will see you when you are ready.....big hugs Adrie.
lwperkins
I'm so sorry to hear this, he was so young and it was so unexpected--I don't see how you could have known it was anything but the flu. Virtual hugs for you and your family!
HADCANCER
This is so sad. I really feel for you. I think you did what most caring people would do. You asked if he needed to go to the doctor. he called you later and staed he was feeling better. I find it confusing that everyone in my life that has died, got better just before they died. I think it is God's way of givng you one final chance to get right with the lord. As you know I just had a death in my family and it has really hit me and affecting my muse as I just do not feel like doing anything. You are in my prayers and you can count I will mention your name at our church service, since it is my job to lead the opening prayer. God bless you and your family. May Jesus see your wifes cousin and welcome him into heaven and say yes I know you. Give you wife a hug for me. I feel for both of you and my heart aches for both of you and your wife.
Iceshark39
Oh, Mike, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Take all the time you need to spend with your wife and family in this time of sorrow. My deepest condolences to your and yours. I truly hope they find something definitive as to why such a vibrant life was taken far too soon to give your family closure. I will light a candle for him and say a prayer for his spirit as well as for you and your family. Much affection to you and your wife. And please accept my most heartfelt condolences and sorrows~
MagikUnicorn Online Now!
Gice collage done buddy...Happy Holidays
GOLDILOCKSUK
Oh my please I hope you two don't blame yourselves you could not have known. That is so sad I am sorry I really am and so is Stephen.What a shocking story Mike. Cathy xoxoxo
efron_241
Have deleted two messages English is not good enough to say the words that need to be said the good thing might be that he never saw it coming.. but for you people.. close to christmas.. terribel I had some plans for tonight, but this news.. so fresh.. make me wonder if i should not just go back into bed... I hope you can still have a good Christmas
UteBigSmile
Hi dear friend, I'm sorry for not having read your whole text, makes me sad that this just happened to your family in this time - it's cruel I know, take care of your wife as good as you can....we are also sitting here with two empty chairs... Reading your complete text brought tears into my eyes.... I feel sooo sad for you! Lot's of love, Ute
BenBischop
Wow, I'm sorry Bro...you take care, and you're wife too...!! still...have a good Christmas...!!
Sylvia
I am deeply sorry Mike... Our Prayers for him and all your Family.
mgtcs
This is really sad my friend, take care, god bless you and your family!
Magick_Lady
family first , and we all will be here when you come back Mike , may our Goddess & God watch over us all and help ya through this period in life Hugs
boobunny
Wow, I am so sorry to hear that. Did the autopsy ever come in? He was so young, that is just awful. Death of someone we are close to gets us to thinking sometimes. Best wishes.
Marinette
Ciao, avevo visto questo tua dedi; purtroppo non avevo capito cosa stavi scrivendo. Mi dispiace veramente moltissimo per questo tuo parente. 37 anni sono veramente pochi per conoscere il Padre Eterno.Non ho parole. Con tantissimo affetto e per ciò che posso, il mio supporto per te e tua moglie:) gea.
M2A
That's a strange circumstance death, sorry to hear such news. Hope things will be clear soon.
clbsmiley
Mike I did not know you had posted this.. Looks like a wonderful guy. Are you snowed in?
Bossie_Boots
Omg im so sorry to read this i am too sorry that i have not seen this until now take your time with your family and please dont worry about comments take care Mike your all in my thoughts and will keep you in my preyers hugs lou x
erlandpil
So sorry to hear that erland
bkhook
Oh my Mike, my condolences to your wife, you, the family and especially his kids. How very sad. May he rest in peace.