playing with soft body and toon settings, at the SAME time . there's a toonish sphinx in the carrara native content. other drape victim figure is Johnathon.
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. don't think the physics rubber effects cloth, i don't see it making a difference.

for further experiments, would like to make cloth more silky looking. less stiff, but without poke thru i tesselated the "cloth" vertex obj with tris.

what happens when forgetting to tick on self-collision >.<

testing how it would move with love spirit, 2 testing categories. move with the object, move with the figure bending

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Justout of curiosity, do you have VWD and the carrara plugin?