My 100th - In memoriam by Sea_Dog
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This is Janice - Mrs. Sea Dog. I lost her on July 22 of this year after 36 years of marriage. After a seven-year battle with cancer, just couldn't fight anymore. She suffered through surgery and round after round of chemotherapy and radiation with the strength and spirit you see here. Even when the cancer came back to attack her spine after a short remission she never lost her courage or determination. When a vertebra collapsed and rendered her unable to walk, she fought back - the Doctors told her she'd never walk and she simply said "Yes, I will" and SHE was right. After eight months in a care facility, weeks in a turtle-shell upper body cast and untolled hours in physical therapy she regained enough mobility to live the remaining four years of her life on her own terms - until the last few weeks she continued running her antiques and collectibles business as she always had, and we enjoy several trips to Las Vegas, Lake Tahoe and along the Pacific coast.
I wasn't going to make this post, I was afraid it would be much too personal, but last week as I noticed how close my hundredth post was I decided it would be fitting for a couple of reasons. First, although I joke about it in my RR bio, Jan actually convinced me to buy my camera and get back into photography. We had gone to a camera store to get her a new point-and-shoot to use in her business when she caught me looking longingly at the DSLR's displayed behind the counter. She convinced me to check out a couple "just for fun". When I tried to give them back to salesperson she asked "which one do you want?" She wouldn't listen to my complaints about them being too expensive and wouldn't leave the store until I picked one out. Ironically, if I hadn't picked one, I wouldn't have these photos and a few others to remember her by.
My second reason for this post is that I've become friends with a couple of ladies here that are going through much the same as Jan did. I hope by relating her story I can contribute just a little to their spirit and help in their battles. Ladies, keep fighting, keep smiling and as Jan would say "don't let the bastards get you down."
Jan was my love, my best friend and my hero. I miss her a lot - this is only a small tribute to a remarkable woman.
Comments (50)
plasmid
You have my deepest sympathies, SeaDog. My wife won her battle with Ovarian Cancer, as did her Sister and Mom with Breast Cancer. Right now, my Father In Law is fighting Leukemia. We are the stick that life whittles on. Right now I'm a stump. Tomorrow I will be a finely carved piece of art! Good luck to you.
doarte
Powerful Image and words Sea Dog. You have done a most incredible dedication for your 100th. I was totally moved with your text and could only concur your astonishing devotion. I salute you! This upcoming Sunday I participate in a walk for cancer here in NYC. I do so for my mother who is also a cancer victim. I will also think of your Janice during the walk.
mbz2662
A beautiful and moving Dedication to your wife, on your 100th upload~
MOSKETON
FELICIDADES, MUY BUENA IMAGEN.
auntietk
What a beautiful tribute this is. Not quite three months ... your loss is still so new ... thank you for sharing your memories with us.
bimm3d
my deepest sympathies, SeaDog!!!great dedication!!!!
Virus
Agreed with bimm3d, my deepest sympathies also, and the dedication is beatifull.
MrsLubner
I look at her face, I see so much. I see the soft and gentle heart. I see the love and practicality in her spirit. What a shame I did not know her. But at least now I know OF her. Wonderful words and thoughts, and above all, a fabulous image to remember her by.
beachzz
This is a most beautiful memory--thank you for sharing this very moving foto.
bmac62
Illegitimi non carborundum...make believe Latin for "don't let the bastards get you down"... There is even a wiki about this phrase. Can you belive it? Here it is: Click Here Very fine piece about your Jan. I lost my wife in Feb 2007. I'm glad you uploaded this tribute. Very well done for all the reasons you've mentioned. I too got back into photography as something good to do and am so glad I did.
jeroni
Splendid composition and colors my friend
Colourdemon
wonderful tribute to your beloved wife... "love will never die"
kgb224
God Bless my friend.Sorry to hear of your loss of your love of your love my friend.May she rest in piece.May The Lord also guide you through this time of sadness my friend.I have the chills where i sit here in front of my Computer.My friend here is a verse of Psalm.May this word also guide you through your loss my friend. Psa 31:3 For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name's sake lead me, and guide me. Thank you for sharing my friend and also for inspiring others who may not be in good health.
lucindawind
Im so sorry for your loss my friend .. its such a horrible disease that takes so many lives ... its a wonderful tribute to your wife .. may she rest in peace until she sees you again .. I truly beleive that
traceyjane
wonderful dedication. I'm so sorry for your loss, to have to let someone go who you love so much is heartbreaking. Your love and memories will never die xx
myrabe
Exquisite testimonial. It says so much of a loving relationship.
morningglory
It sounds like she was a very remarkable woman. And it's a loving tribute to the great spirit she must have had.
mickeyrony
Sadness in our heart then to control our emotions and this disease CANCER appalling all fall into the abysses of the torments, sorrows, and evils of all kinds. I sympathized with all those which have this disease and I know how much that assigns family and friends. To evacuate our sorrows It is best the thing to be made. I raise you my hat because Juste of to acknowledge our sorrows It is a little to cherish to be our loves like. Peace with its heart MICKEYRONY ((5++)) La tristesse dans notre coeur ne puis controler nos émotions et cette maladie CANCER C'est effroyable tous tombent dans l'abimes des tourments, peines ,et maux de toutes sortes. Je compatie avec tous ceux qui possèdent cette maladie et je sais combien cela affecte famile et amis . Évacuer nos peines c'est la meilleur chose à faire . Je te lève mon chapeau car Juste d'avouer nos peines c'est un peu chérir l'ëtre de nos amours comme . Paix à son âme MICKEYRONY ((5++))
prutzworks
well done dedication!
Meisiekind
What a wonderful dedication to a remarkable woman! Oh to be loved like that! Wonderful tribute to your late wife. May you find peace and joy in the wonderful memories.
moochagoo
How sweet tribute.
sandra46
an extraordinary tribute! I'm sorry for your loss, but you've been lucky to meet her and enjoy a long marriage full of love. Yes, one should keep fighting! Mu mom, unfortunately, wasn't able to do that, because she was gone in less than three months.
Fireflame
I am truely sorry for your loss! A beautiful dedication.
durleybeachbum
Thankyou so much for sharing what must be so painful to you.
emmecielle
Moving tribute to a great woman!
tennesseecowgirl
I am so sorry to hear about your wife, what an incredible love story, and dedication by you both. I think she knew that you would need a distraction to focus on after she was gone, I wish you the best. Congratulations on your 100th.. hugsss
Virtual_World
My deepest sympathies!
orig_buggy
You have my sympathies, I'll pray for you ! What a wonderful dedication to a remarkable woman! God Bless!
Erestorfan
What a wonderful, sweet dedication. I can't imagine losing someone after 36 years of marriage. My hubby and I will celebrate 22 years this month. Looking at your dear wife's face you can see the sweetness and determination. My heart goes out to you for losing her...may the happy memories you shared bring you comfort!
flavia49
A wonderful and very touching tribute!! I'm sorry for your loss, youa have all my sympathies. Love is forever!!!