For My Dad.... (Taking A Break..) by RodS
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Dear Friends...
I am going to have to take a little break from Rendo for a few days.
Tuesday afternoon, the assisted living center where my dad lives called to say that he had become extremely confused, and was making comments about possible suicide. I had to take off work early, and my aunt and I had to check him into a geriatric psychiatric center. At this time, I do not know if or when he will be able to return to his apartment.
My dad has always been a strong and very sharp-minded man, however since losing his wife (my step-mom) to a stroke in 2008, he has steadily been going downhill. Although I have been expecting this for some time, it doesn't make it any easier when it finally happens, nor does it help ease the heartbreak or stem the flow of tears. It has been an emotional and exhausting day.
The image in the middle is my dad, taken earlier today with my work cellphone while we waited in the ER of Centerpoint Hospital. The psychiatric center could not admit him without first being medically checked out at a regular hospital. We arrived at Centerpoint at about 3:00PM. By the time my aunt and I left him at the psychiatric center, it was approaching midnight.
I will return as soon as I can. I'm not sure at the moment when I'll be back, but I will be back.
Take care, my friends.
Comments (33)
Madbat
I'm sorry to hear about this Rod, You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
auntietk
Oh, my friend, I am so sorry to hear this. You're in my heart, and I'll be sending you all the strength and love you can use. You do what you need to do, and I'll stand back here and do what I can virtually to hold you up. Much love and big, warm hugs to you and Jo. Take good care, dear one, and keep us posted as you can.
missblue
Im sorry to hear this, I hope everything will turn into better soon =)
renecyberdoc
heartbreaking indeed rod. i say no more. all the best my man.
pixeluna
I am so sorry to hear about this, Big Bro. I am just wishing you the best and will keep you in thoughts and prayers. Please take a break for now.
bazza
Oh dear this is not good news my friend, my thoughts, love and prayers are with you and your family.. Take the time off you need my friend it is understandable..
UteBigSmile
I can not express my feelings better than 'auntietk' did, so I completely agree with her - It's heartbreaking dear friend!!!
MineFujiko
RodS-san, I am so sorry to hear about this, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
vitachick
My prayers are with you and the family. Take care of business. We will be here when u return.
mikeerson
Rod... I'm only 48 and haven't had my Mom in my life since 38.... it's tough... as I read what you're going through, what your Dad is going through, all I could think of is if my Mom was alive I'd take her up to her Cabin.... Is there somewhere you can take your Dad, just the two of you and get some "Life" back in him? He needs it.... It'd be good for both of you.... it sounds like he's screaming for help, I could only imagine losing my Wife - the pain, the loneliness.... take him fishing, a strip bar, a football game - get him drunk... I think that's what I'd want from my Son - and I haven't been drunk since 2003? ...well, it's been at least 5 years, but I'd love to get drunk with my son and spend some time with him at a campfire.... just some ideas - I hope you find this useful and you do it and you create a memory like you never seen coming.
MtnMist
This is beautiful, Rod, how you've surrounded your father with love, spirituality and angels to watch over him when you can't be there. You and your father are in my thoughts and prayers and I will pray for his piece of mind and heart.
eekdog
wow! such amazing work my friend, you and your father Rod are in my prayers. stunning collage that you did here.
magnus073
Rod, first of all let me say that your Dad and your entire family are in my prayers during this difficult time. I'm so sorry your family has to go through this and please keep us informed when you are able.
brewgirlca
Rod, these words sound as if they could have been written by me. I am walking a similar path, the uncertainty, the long hours of waiting with nothing happening, the realization that western medicine is terribly ill prepared to deal with issues of the elderly. Though out paths are not the same the journey is similar enough that I am empathetic to your plight. Remember above all else to take care of yourself first, because if you don't you will not be able to take care of anyone else. It is an old saying, often forgotten in times of crises, and yet it is in times of crises thay you need to heed it the most. I let myself continue a crash at the time my Mom and Dad were going down and if not for my brother stepping in it would have been a disaster. Pay heed to your needs too. You will give up more time and space now but do not give it all away or too much, do not think "I will get it back, someday." No, keep time for yourself in this time, and you will gain time for your father as well.
debbielove
Rod, my friend.. No endless words.. Take care of your Dad, take care of yourself.. Come back when you are ready, when you can, if you can.. We will be here waiting.. Mine and Rosy's very best wishes and hopes to your Dad and yourself.. Rob and Rosy
jocko500
my ex wife was like that when her mom died and she is still like that ; that happen years ago and nothing changed. I know it breaks your heart and all but you just have to keep up your own life and not get drain down. Keep your faith.
shadownet
Rod, I know this is rough time for you and your family. I will be keeping you and your dad in my thoughts and prayers.
Rainastorm
Oh Rod, I'm so sorry...it hurts so much to see the ones we love go down this road. Know you all our in my thoughts and prayers hun...please hang in there.
adrie
I'm so sorry to hear this news Rod, i know what you are going true my friend. But take care of him and take the thime with him when you can he needs it. You and yours and your father are in my prayers Rod. And come back when the time is right.......please take also care for your self......hugs Adrie.
MarciaGomes
UMA IMAGEM COMOVENTE,SINTO EM SABER SOBRE SEU PAI,ESPERO QUE ELE FIQUE BOM É MUITO TRISTE VER A PESSOA QUE AMAMOS VIVER ASSIM,VOCÊ E SEU PAI ESTÃO EM MINHAS ORAÇÕES, ESPERO DE CORAÇÃO QUE SEU PAI FIQUE BOM.
mrestey
OH-NO!! I am so sorry to hear of this Rod! I am at a loss for words. Just know that, having spent countless hours in hospitals with friends and family, I understand very well what you are going through buddy. You and your family will be in my heart and thoughts. We will be here when you are able to be back with us. Beautiful dedication image by the way.
adorety
Heart breaking to be sure. Roxy's words are very wise. I wish you and your family the best and we'll all be here when you find time. Be well.
beachzz
All the very best to you and your dad. May he find peace.
vyktohria
Oh Sweetie...This is so sad to hear. My heart is with you. If you EVER need anything...even just someone to talk to...I'm here for you. My thoughts are with you and your family...
bmac62
I am with you and Jo Rod...strength and good health to you both. Hugs all around.
mixart
Oh My, My prayers are with you and your family Rods
boobunny
This is a very beautiful tribute to your father. I am so sorry to hear of this and I wish you all the best. We are here when you need us. Take care of yourself.
Knechtruprecht
God bless you and your family!
mistressotdark
now that I'm reading this backwards, i'm glad your dad is back home...
mgtcs
I'm very sorry to hear this Rod, You and yours are in my prayers and thoghts my friend, God bless you all! Beautiful and touching image!