Love is acceptance. When you love someone ... you take them into your heart and that is surely why it hurts so much when we lose someone we love because we lose a part of ourselves.       Our dead are not absent but invisible. They look with their eyes full of light, in our eyes full of sadness. Aurelius Augustinus La vie est éternelle. L'amour est immortel. Death cannot stop true love; all it can do is delay it for a little while." The Princess Bride