to a conforming item in poser ? 

So far I tried a few tuts on 
how to make an .obj to conform to a figure in poser but 
i'm easily confused. It never works for me. They will fit on the model 
but as I go to pose they stay in their place. and doesn't move.

Anyone have any easy tuts ?

I take it this is a hat?  It doesn't need to be a conforming figure, just parent it to a figure's head.

• Position the hat as you'd like it to fit
• Select the hat
• Object menu -> Set Parent
• Pick the head of the figure wearing it out of the hierarchy browser

I know but what would I do if I wanted it to be a conforming figure ? 
I modelled a hat because it's the easiest thing for me to model 
being a beginner :) Thank you for your answer though :)

Unless I'm missing something here, what pjz99 told you is what you should do.  When you save it to the library as a prop, Poser will ask you if you want it to be a smart prop.  Click yes, and it will always load just as you fit it to that figure.

John

You can't really "conform" it to anything anyway, since it only spans one body part (the head)

If you'd made a cowl or something that covered the neck ect. too there would be need for a conformer. Not in this case though. Hats should be smartprops.

Here are a couple of tutorials that are mentioned in the thread "Wanting to make your own poser clothes ?" ( http://www.renderosity.com/mod/forumpro/showthread.php?thread_id=2710547 )

The first by Tashar59 seams to deal mostly with modeling clothes for poser
http://poserpros.daz3d.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=52016

and the second by Yanelis3d deals with making the model into a confroming  figure http://www.yanelis3d.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=139

Chrs Cox