The light that guides us all by Faemike55
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Whether it be God, Allah or any other name that you go by or believe.
the events that shape our lives can be subtle or catastrophic or anywhere in between.
In my case it is tending towards the Catastrophic style. My Uncle Steve (dad's brother) and Aunt Barb came down to attend a funeral of a relative and then they took Dad and Mom to the coast to get them away from the strife and BS that is attendant with my step-brother and his girlfriend. While they were at the coast, issues were discovered which gave me the first upload about my parents condition. They have since come back from the coast and I have learned so much more and none of it very good.
Dad is at stage three or very near that state with dementia and mom hurts more than ever. and such being the case, my uncle and aunt are doing what they can to get them into the assisted care facility as soon as possible.
This means that I will be busy packing up my stuff in this next week in order to move out of this place I have called home for the last 6 and a half years. I will have up to two, maybe three weeks to do this.
While this sounds harsh, my step-brother and his girlfriend have been given less than a week to get out. there's a story behind this event.
Where Am I going with all this rambling? Events happen for a reason, sometimes the reason is obvious and other times not so; this event or series of events range somewhere in the middle I think.
Long story short, I will be online, especially while I'm at work so I can at least keep up with the ebots. until I get MY computer(s) moved I will not be posting much. I ask for your patience, kind thoughts and prayers, not only for me but for more especially for my parents. I ask that you send them a guiding light that will help them on their way...
thank you from my heart
Mike
Oh! I almost forgot, this was taken in the Wind River section of the Gifford Pinchot National Forest where I camped and 'pretended' to hunt for elk and deer.
Comments (62)
tetrasnake
From one Mike to another. My prayers go out to you and I wish you luck! Fantastic capture as well!
RodS Online Now!
Having experienced my own father going through dementia, I can well relate to the pain you are experiencing, Mike. And adding to that your mom's pain, it must be very heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers go to you and yours, my friend. May that guiding light shine on all of you through these difficult times. You just take care of you and yours - we'll always be here for you. Beautiful and appropriate photo, my friend!
bakapo
a nice shot of nature, it really is beautiful. you remain on my mind and in my prayers, Mike, as you move from one point in your life to another. I hope you all find peace and comfort in whatever comes next. take one thing at a time. hug
danapommet
You will need this guiding light Mike and remember that Mom and Dad willbe safer in a good assisted living facility.
bebopdlx
Great shot Mike, take care of yourself first. All else will fall in place.
wysiwig
Yep. The light is always there. You just have to keep your eyes open and look for it. As painful as this is it looks like you've got a good start on handling things. I hope your parents get a room together. I'll keep a good thought for you and yours.
JuliSonne
We are in concerned about many and something forget those who closest to us. I send you and your family good thoughts. They need help and they will get them,. Your picture is symbolic of this.
jayfar
A super shot Mike and I wish you and your family well and good luck in the coming weeks.
STEVIEUKWONDER
My thoughts are with you Mike. Take care Sir!
renecyberdoc
i wish you and your parents all the best.might sound weak but comes from the heart,we are with ya bro.
UteBigSmile
I agree with dear 'bebopdlx' - Take care and stay safe dear Mike!
VEDES
MIKE ...All will be better for you and your parents.Here near to me a woman and a man had about the same problems and now are much better with help from a Botanist doctor. The same Botanist makes me much better (open my feet artiries) and don;t cut my feet.SEARCH to find a good Botanist which in many cases make miracles .i pray for you and your parents.
cvrad
Mike sorry to hear of your difficult situation. It's great to hear that you are taking it with such an optimistic outlook. We can't control our situation but we can control how we react to it. My thoughts go out to you and your family and hopefully your situation will improve quickly.
Cyve
My thoughts and prayers go to you and yours, Mike !!!
Mondwin
I wish You and Yours good luck my friend!!!!!Bravissimo!:DDD.Warm hugsxx Whylma
debbielove
My best wishes and thouhts are with you and yours Mike.. Take your time, I know when you can, you'll return.. Good luck mate! Rob
eekdog Online Now!
Mike that is not very good news my friend. i hope the very best for you, your dear mother and father my friend. i hope you can get settled in soon where ever it may be my friend. reffer to an older post of mine called the guiding light. my prayers are with you along with my thoughts. your patents and issues are far mor important then commenting. take care of all these first, we will still be here, Mike. lol Steve
magnus073
Mike, first of all let me say that I'll be sure to keep your entire family in my prayers during this difficult time. I'm sorry you have to go through this and hope that your life will become more stable soon and the bad things going on around you will become less of a burden over time.
drifterlee
This is gorgeous, Mike!!!! I love the dot of sunlight. I kind of know what you are going through. I went through it with my mother last year. I wasn't living with her, though, she was living with me. Sorry I am behind on comments. I had to put in a new hard drive when my old one died and I lost everything. Ugh!
GOLDILOCKSUK
I work in a dementia home and understand what you are going through. It must be horrific to watch your dad like that one minute you will be so sad and then are days a mere smile warms your heart. Make sure they check the place out thoroughly and have some sort of activities attention span will be short though. Also take some old pictures and have a memory board in his room that helps a lot. I love your photo hugs Cathy xoxoxox
Jean_C
My thoughts are with you, take care of you, Mike! Wonderful capture!
jendellas
Goes without saying Mike, loving positive thoughts to you & your Mum & Dad. I hope you find your own home very soon & get settled. Yjis is a beautiful photo. xxxxx
MrsRatbag
Such a beautiful spot of light in the dark forest; may your parents find that bright spot for themselves, and may you find a place to call home very soon, Mike!
brycek
My prayers to you and your family. Nice shot, Mike!!
pat40
Wishing you all the luck, lovely pic
Black-Carrie
My thoughts and prayers are with your and yours!
mickeyrony
What horrible story you lives, Mike I hope you find help from anywhere Prayers for you Life is so strange and attroce. Take care and be safe MICHEL
mtdana
My prayers and best wishes to you and your family my friend.
bobrgallegos
You did right by putting this in Gods hands Mike. I always said I would not put my parents in a nursing home or assisted living. My Mothers doctor told me that's where, because of her health issues she would do the best for Her remaining years. It was a very hard decision, but one I had to make for my Moms sake. Take the time that you need. As for your photo, this a great capture for Your current situation. A Guiding Light! My thought and prayers are with You and Your parents.
flavia49
fantastic picture I wish you all the best!