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A dear family friend passed today, and I know none of you knew her and it can be hard to read about the passing of someone you never met...so I do this humbly, hoping it will remind you of someone in your own lives...
Merideth was a truly unassuming soul who sometimes made people think she didn't have a lot to say---until they saw that her sweetness ran so deep you thought she was a little sun. She was dear friend to my sister--it's how I got to know her--and I remember how she'd pop out of Lynne's kitchen and say---like a child hoping that the answer would be "yes"---"can I have a cookie?"
"You don't have to ask!" Lynne would say. But that was Merideth: She didn't even take a cookie for granted.
She contracted a virulent form of cancer, and her treatments were horrific. Yet, in the many times I saw her, she exuded a deep sweetness and was so kind and engaging, you wouldn't have known she was ill. And she always pulled back, and said: "You're always so dapper!" (Me???) Well anyone who knows me knows that "dapper" isn't exactly the term that comes to mind when seeing me. But she meant it every time. And you know what? I started to dress better just to live up to her.
Friends came to her from all corners of the country just to take her out, help her get places, take her on vacations, etc. And even though they knew her so much better than I did, she was family to me, evoking that feeling you get when---even after not seeing someone for months---you're at home the second you do; a child all over again in the best sense: You can do anything, say anything, let your guard down, because you're with family. That's what she made me feel; like I could throw off all 'airs' and be at home.
My image is way saturated, but that's our street---she lived in my building---and it was taken a previous October (see the Halloween cobwebs on the fence?) I'd like to dream that these lush overgrown streets would don their most beautiful gowns just for her; and tell her that it will be this way from now on...that, freed of the terrible oppression of a disease which wasn't worthy of one-ten-thousandth of who she was, she now walks in the realm of pure beauty...and I want to say to her, you were precious and rare, Merideth, your sweetness was eternal, and I'm so sorry you couldn't be with us longer. With deep gratitude, so-treasured memory, and truly humble love; may you walk in peace forever...mark
(thanks for reading...I'll start commenting by morning)
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Comments (14)
Richardphotos
very dynamic colors and urbanscape.
Faemike55
I know it is trite, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and all who knew Meredith! May you keep her love and joy in your heart always
bakapo
Mark, your words always touch me, deeply. you live and love with all your heart and soul and anyone that enters your life is blessed in many, many ways. I am truly sorry for your loss. may Meredith sleep in beautiful, peaceful sleep till her loved ones meet her again. this is a beautiful street scene, I think I see her spark of love shining at the end of the walkway.
eekdog Online Now!
OMG! Mark I'm so sorry my friend, dang words of comfort are so difficult in losses like this my friend. Was just commenting on your last one for Rod. And saw this and was shocked and now very saddened my friend. I know most say she's in a better place, and yes she is. But wish I could come up with something better to say. You touch many people's lives here Mark including mine alot!
She sounded like a super people person, and she touched many lives. Wish I had the pleasure of knowing you both in your city. Had a long day today, needed to cover for a bimbo merchandiser. Take care and keep us close bro, we're your Internet family. Hope and pray for quick healing for all who cherished her.
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RodS
At times in our lives we encounter those souls who - for lack of a better description - must be truly Angels. They add light to our lives, they make us better in so many small ways. Merideth was one of these. And now, she has gone to the place where Angels dwell. And I'm sure she's smiling on the lovely image you've posted for her.
I have never understood how the cosmic 'justice' system works. It seems like it's always the loving and kindest souls who end up with that horrid disease. At least now she is at peace. You and she are in my thoughts and prayers, Mark.
SunriseGirl
My aunt was just such a kind sweet soul as you describe. Her light still shines within my hear as I hope the light of your sweet friend will always shine in yours. Thank you for sharing your lovely tribute.
wysiwig
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Mark. Merideth sounds like a person who would have been good to know. When I hear about people like her I start hoping there is a heaven. Rod and Steve said it very well. You do not lack for people who care for you and are thinking about you. Stay well.
LivingPixels
Touching and heartfelt Mark you can see Meredith meant a great deal to you and it was beautiful of you to remember her like this thanx for sharing these beautiful thoughts.
GrandmaT
What a beautiful tribute to your friend. There are just some people who are truly special and Merideth sounds like one of them. I am so sorry for your loss but it sounds like you have some wonderful memories to comfort you.
anaber
My sincere condolences to Lynne and to You, Mark! I'm so sorry for your loss! But Merideth sparkles with your words. It is so sad that persons like her, have to leave us! Reading you, i imagine her like a little sister, a big sister, a wise and loving mother and the most sweet daughter. A GRAND woman, that in her illness, shared strength, love and joy all'round;--- a truly TREASURE that that only some have the blessing to have in their lifes--they are are angels, like was said above. As for your image, Mark, the Sun SHINE in your street and it looks like a neverending street---it is wonderful ! Merideth will shine forever inside the hearts of all who knew and loved her and your memory will never go! Much Peace, Love and Light to you .Take care.
goodoleboy
Sorry about your loss, Mark, and I echo the comments above.
romanceworks
A beautiful tribute to your dear friend, Merideth. The colors are so full of life and joy. She sounds like a special person and I wish I had known her. I'm so glad you and your sister had such a sweet soul in your life. People like Merideth are the rare souls who touch our hearts forever and make the world a more beautiful place. I hope her spirit is walking happily along that familiar sidewalk, and kicking up those autumn leaves.
aksirp
what a wonderful dedication to your friend Meredith - reeding your words and seeing this happy colorful street its like thinking someone passed away can follow along beloved neighborhood in the next dimension, just like a walk on a sunny and happy day. my condolences to you and yours
auntietk
You make me feel like I knew her. May she walk in sunshine forever.