I'm a little late in posting today, I have been talking to Nick, who is giving Mr Nasty his SECOND warning right now. He is also posting a message in the forum so people who receive nasty IMs can come forward and speak out. So please, if you get one, go to the forum. The good news is, if Mr Nasty doesn't stop now, he won't be around here anymore. I desperately wanted to name him here today, and publicly give him a piece of my mind, but Nick asked me not to, which is VERY frustrating, but I will abide by what he asks. I have told a couple of people who he is though, by email....and I think quite a few have guessed his name !!! I have to tell you, I had another IM from him last night saying I was being childish !!! and telling me to delete what I said !!! He has upset SO many people, if it was up to me, he wouldn't get the chance of a second warning, he would get his marching orders, but there you go. Now I'd like to say how completely overwhelmed I was by all your kind and caring comments, I've never had much confidence,and I had no idea just how much you all cared. After reading all the marvelous comments yesterday, I couldn't stop crying. I've shed buckets of happy tears, and my keyboard has got awfully wet, have you ever tried typing on a soggy keyboard..big big smile. Your support has been absolutely wonderful, and I couldn't possibly leave such a terrific group of friends, but I think I will have a couple of weeks off. When I am refreshed, I will definitely come back. You have all helped me so much, I just can't thank you enough. You are all fantastic, and I will see you soon, Thelma.