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PLease accept my deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and yours. There isnt a lot that I can say that will make any sense right now or bring comfort, but i know in time you will understand. You son was your joy and inspiration....for reasons unbeknown to us, he was taken from you.....but, at least you had him...as briefly as you did..he was in your lives, and he will live forever in your souls. Stay strong if you can....and mourn as u need to....but there will come a time when you shall all be joined again. I wish I could say something to help you....but I am at a loss. All I can do is offer my comfort and support, and let you know that I am there if u ever need a shoulder to lean on. HUGS
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. We know that little can be done by others to help you in your morning. To know that there is support can be a great comfort on its own, and you must know we all at Rendersoity forums offer you that. Our thoughts, prayers and genuine love, will be with you though out your mourning and into those days that are to come. Mike and Sharen
Sorry to hear of your lose. Having lost a loved one awhile ago, I do feel for you and your family. Words dont do justice to the feelings and emotions that flow when something like this happens. All I can say is even though you only had him for a short time, he will live in your hearts fowever. This can be one of the greatest gifts we are given.
Dear Jason, I read your message and then went away from the computer for a while to avoid tears. I have lost 2 infants myself, and although I can't know exactly how you feel, I do know what it's like to watch the light in your life go out. Please don't let it stay out. It was too easy for me to lose myself when I lost my children. Take care of you. Let the people who love you take care of you too. Losing an infant is made worse than other deaths because so few people knew and loved the person you lost. Everyone says it's "a very private pain" and that only makes it harder. By sharing your experiences here, you've let us all know your son. He is missed by many. So much for avoiding tears. You have my most sincere sympathies. Phoenix
I pray for you and your family,Im sorry for your loss, It is not easy losing a child, I have lost one myself, It rips at your inner sole. Jason I will pray for you and your family everyday,Remember Freinds make all the diffrence in the world in times like this. If it wasnt for my close friends I probably would not of pulled thru.., If there is anything that I could do to help you Please let me know, Consider my family a extention too yours, Please Let me Know !!! Sincerely , The Staff Family PS. Always Here To help. mqshocker aka Bill
From one artist to another. It was with great sadness to hear about your tragic loss. Renderosity is a community of like minded individuals who, I am sure will all be praying for you, your family and especially for Zane. Even though we've never met or spoken to each other before I say "Take care my friend." A candle that burns twice as bright, burns twice as fast. A prayer will be said for you tonight
I've never lost a child, Jason, so I don't think there's any way I can comprehend what you're going through right now. But I'll share with you what someone told me when my mate died in 1983 and I felt like the world had collapsed around me. It's like we're all travelling on a gigantic subway system. Sometimes the cars stop, and people get off, and we watch them as our car departs back into the tunnel. If we're lucky, we look out the window and we see another subway, travelling a parallel track to our own, and there, if only for a moment or two, are the people we saw get off. We can smile and wave to each other, but only for a second, but those few moments become more valuable than anything we could possibly imagine. Your son's journey hasn't ended, Jason. He just transfered to another train. So on occasion, when the world feels like %$#*, just look out the window, and trust me, you'll see him.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die." My deepest condolences .. Poppy
If the human body were perfect we'd all last a lot longer, sadly, for some, "we are all too human." I'm sorry for your loss, it's never happened to me, so I can't say how I'd react, but I hope that someday you will see past the pain at the joy that a life well lived, however short, can be. "There are two ways to meet life; you may refuse to care until indifference becomes a habit, a defensive armor, and you are safe - but bored. Or you can care greatly, and live greatly - till life breaks you on its wheel." - Dorothy Canfield Fisher later jb
I am sorry for your loss, every life is precious and every loss is felt. I hope that in time your pain eases, and that his light shines in your heart for evermore. In his short life he has already touched so many. Sometimes things happen that we don't understand why. My deepest sympathies, I could not imagine how I would feel if I lost one of my children. Just thinking about all the children around the world that have their lives cut short so suddenly breaks my heart. hugs
I am deeply sorry for your loss.......God Bless the Child, and you and you family also. There is never the right words to say in times like this, but just be re-assured that there are many who feel your pain and in that, take, re-assurance that your child is in "God's Hands" and in peace now. Our thoughts are with you. genny
I can only imagine how you feel and send my deepest regrets for you. I witnessed similar times when I was a child at the loss of my baby cousin due to cardiomyopathy. He was born a happy healthy baby and contrcted golden staff in hospital which attacked his heart and left him with this crippling disease, he lost his fight six months before heart transplants become more readily available to children with his condition.
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My son Zane Alexander was born Feb. 13, 2001. He was in the hospital for the first 6 weeks of his life. Some of you may remember my post to that effect. I haven't really had time to come back for an update, so here it is... He was finally diagnosed as having a genetic disorder called Zellweger Syndrome. It is a very serious disease that affects every cell in your body, causing muscle non-developement and many other problems. The average life-span for a child with Zellweger is 12-16 weeks. On August 10th, 3 days short of his 6 month birthday, Zane died. His organs began shutting down and his heart just stopped. He was my inspiration and the light of my life. I will post some of his pictures in my art gallery later on, so you all can see how full of life he was. I don't really know where to go from here...so Thanks for listening Jason ps. Phil, I'm truly sorry. I hope someday everything can be forgiven.